Creating True Prosperity through Epigenetic Healing

Kuan Yin’s Transformation Game for Creating True Prosperity

Kuan Yin's Transformation GamesMany people are having a difficult time moving forward in a positive way and creating true prosperity because old energy from outdated and ineffective paradigms are interfering with communication and clear intentions.  The object of this epigenetic healing meditation is to help us detach from manipulative energetic patterns and complexity around money.

Over many millennia, the pursuit of money has been built into our very DNA. We have been taught to believe that “lack of money” is the problem and “having money” is the solution. Therefore, on an epigenetic level, when one looks for “prosperity,” they are generally looking for money.

Creating True Prosperity The problem is, money is merely a concept that’s been made by society to symbolically represent prosperity. It is not prosperity itself. So, in the simplest terms, people are looking for prosperity in the wrong places – outside of themselves. Yet, creating true prosperity is actually a process that comes from within.

Money is a societal symbol that quantifies how we utilize and exchange energy. It’s subject to collective priorities, motivations and intent – both conscious and unconscious.

Creating True Prosperity in reality is a question of energy and how you use it.

When you’re looking for money externally, you’re creating an attraction field for the ‘idea’ of money, not the reality of prosperity. This preoccupation with money and external things is motivated by fear and causes you to reject your full potential for prosperity.  Life energy or chi’ gets diverted and used to feed things and fear, rather than you.

This simple Transformation Game can help you let go of these old patterns on an epigenetic level and release any collective agreements that might be causing your energy to be drained.


Mind Body Integration

Mind Body IntegrationFor best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.


Welcome to the I Ching Reading and Transformation Game for:

Hexagram #11 Prospering

Think of the fear and angst that you may experience around “having money” and “not having money” or other financial concerns.  Notice how it feels in your body. This is an energy that’s interfering with your ability to be truly prosperous and you have more control over it than you think you do.

Once you’ve identified the energy, gently gaze at the following sequence of Intuitive Learning Circles™ one at a time. Consider the question or affirmation that goes with each Step. The process will help you shift priorities and make different choices about how to use your energy more productively and in tune with your Inner Guidance.

What’s Stopping Me From Creating True Prosperity?

Step 1:

As you gaze at the Circle below, think about a specific issue regarding finances or systems of support that you’re having in your life right now. The image that comes to you may appear like a huge wall of complexity, an angry monster, a snake or you could just feel blank. Take several relaxing breaths while you gently move your body around.

Imagine that the image, whatever it is, is softening, moving or even melting. You can feel your body beginning to relax.

Now that your mind and body are calmer, you can begin to access underlying patterns and epigenetic tags that are diverting your chi or life force from creating true prosperity.

 

Step 2:

Use this affirmation with the Circle below to access Soul information that’s ready to be transmuted:

“I let go of any misconceptions that money alone is the goal or that work is the goal. The real goal is creating true prosperity that supports me in a healthy way.”

“I let go of being controlled by money.”

“I let go of the concept of money privilege.”

 

“I release any conditioning or mental patterns that make me think money is the only form of support that’s available or useful to receive.”

“I release the societal agreement that working is the only purpose that has value. I release my agreements to overwork, to put too much pressure on myself, to be a slave to my work or to work too hard.”

Step 3:

As long as we’re being drained by the concepts of money and finances as we’ve known it, we won’t be open to new forms of support through Universal Life energy. Use this affirmation and the next Circle to free up your mind:

“I let go of old concepts about how money or finances work so that I may be open to new solutions and new forms of support.”

Breathe and relax. In your mind’s eye, see yourself letting go of false concepts about money, work and how you go about being productive.

“I let go of any agreement that says being tense, worried, uptight or ‘perfect’ will help me be more prosperous.” 

“I let go of any agreement I have to be affected by the societal angst and fear that goes along with money. I may not have to do all the things I think I have to do.”

 

Step 4:

The next few symbols are from “Divine Nature Activated” and will help us release negative epigenetic ‘tags’ and conditioning around money. The key is to relax as much as possible while you look at each symbol. It can help to imagine an actual DNA strand relaxing, healing and filling up with light.

 

“I release harmful conditioning about money and what I have to do to be prosperous.”

I now focus on peaceful prosperity that is beneficial.”

 

“I release any conditioning or generational patterns that instruct me to sacrifice myself for the purpose of making money.”

 

“I ask for the Divine to remove paranoia from my essence and replace it with gratitude and grace.”

 

“I ask for clear communication about how I can use my energy to create peace and sustainable prosperity.”

 

“I cut through the illusions of scarcity, powerlessness and fear.  I include inequity, double standards, slaver labor, etc.

I now open to light and illumination toward sustainable prosperity.”

 

“I dismantle my tendencies to channel my energy destructively.

I now make a commitment to channel my energy into balanced systems of sustainable prosperity.”

 

Step 5 :

Imagine that all your societal and generational prejudices about work and having or not having money are like a nasty machine that’s breaking apart and falling away into nothingness. Keep looking at his symbol for dissolving violent and destructive thoughts until the machine is completely dismantled.

Include any mistakes or failures that you feel you’ve made or that you’re afraid you might make in the future. Include any drains, leaks or work patterns you may have taken on from your family.

Step 6:

Once you’ve taken them apart, you might want to use this symbol to dissolve any energetic pipelines that drain your life force or dump toxic energy into you. Make sure they’re completely gone.

Step 7:

“I seal and heal all holes, openings, leaks or passageways that divert my energy away from supporting myself appropriately.”

 

Step 8:

Use this Circle to redirect your energy towards a life affirming choice that you could make or action that you could take. Imagine your choice in the center of the Circle, then aim your attention and energy directly at it. Here’s an example:

“I have faith that the Universe wants to support me.”

“I say ‘yes’ to people, thoughts, energies and activities that support true prosperity.”

“I allow my ideas about money and work to redirect into the New Paradigm. They are a true representation of beneficial exchange between myself and others.”

“I take actions that work with the flow of Nature, rather than against her.”

“I make investments with my time, my intention, money and energy that support true, sustainable prosperity.” Etc.

 

 

Step 9:

To finish the Game, use this last Circle to seal your auras. It’s important that they are repaired and refocused before you go on with your day.

Congratulations!

You’ve just let go of multiple patterns that have been blocking your priorities for creating true prosperity for a long time. If you like, you may go through this Transformation Game again around other support issues that are troubling you. Be sure to rest though and take good care of yourself!

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This Transformation game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Healthy Priorities Based on Respect for Earth

A Healing Meditation from Intuitive Learning Circle ™ – Respect for Earth ~

Sometimes things don’t turn out the way we expected or the way we hoped…


For example, in the 1950’s, scientists invented the premier pesticide, DDT which, at the time, was a boon to food manufacturers. What they didn’t know was that this ‘miraculous’ invention and the completely unrestricted use of it was going to throw the ecology of nature seriously out of balance.

To make matters worse, once they finally admitted there was a problem, they proceeded to invent a complicated series of compensations and hazards that have led us to where we are today (DDT was listed as #14 in The 50 Worst Inventions – Time Magazine).

Unintended Consequences

In our rush to “fix” things, we often incur unintended consequences. Of course, we can’t know everything in advance, however, it might be a good idea to slow down and look at things more carefully. That’s what this sequence of Circles can help with. Gaze at this one softly and breathe while you intend for all the energy around you and in you to slow down.

“I imagine everything is moving in slow motion.”

“I take the time to focus my senses and perceive things as they really are.”

“I get my feet back under me and notice the time. I am in the present*.”

*It can help to open and close your hands to get more present.

“I connect with a healthy intention that comes from my heart.”

Congratulations! Now you’re in a better place to ask for help!

A Prayer for Healthy Priorities and Respect for Earth

Most of us like to believe that we can learn from our mistakes. Mistakes can be forgiven, especially when we can admit to them and make amends. Unfortunately, the status quo is determined to stay in denial and double down on their intentions to disrespect nature and dominate it.

Common sense says, “Go another way. You’re following a dangerous path.”

But the status quo puts its foot down and says NO!

Toxic Patterns of Patriarchy“Nature is here to be exploited and sacrificed for the almighty dollar.”

and

“We want whatever we want, when we want it.”

The drive towards death and self-destruction is real and must be dealt with. But how can we find solutions that will work? Most of the time, we react to problems by jumping on board a quick solution – any solution – and then try to change the situation by force. 

Intuitively, our heart’s know that forcing things won’t work in the long run. Ultimately nature takes its course and we have to face the truth: our problems cannot be solved from the same mental position they were created from.
A transformation of consciousness is required to get from where we are to where we want to be.

Beyond Thoughts and Prayers ~

Yes. Let’s offer a prayer of respect for Earth – for a change of path, for sustainable prosperity and healthy priorities. And then, let’s go beyond that and dissolve the mental, spiritual and emotional patterns that keep us bound to greed and disrespect.

Those patterns go deep into the collective history of humanity. They express themselves through unconscious attitudes and behaviors that create so much strife in our families, our spiritual institutions, our education systems and our politics. The infrastructure of our lives is falling apart and it’s time to let the death wish go.

We all hold pieces of information that keep us bound to the old paradigm of disrespect and unsustainable greed. What piece of hidden information are you holding? What is your heart ready to let go of?

Let’s use a quick Transformation Game to help us find and release old agreements from the collective unconscious that are supporting this kind of insanity.

Simply gaze at the Circle below and imagine burning your agreements to those hidden agendas.

“I cut my ties to any hidden agenda I still hold to poisoning the water or disrespecting the land.

I forgive myself for exploiting the Earth or abusing her in any way.”

“I form a new, clear intention to join with nature’s resources and respect the Earth.”

Respect the Earth with Healthy Priorities

“I respect the water, the animals, plants, air and the elements.

That includes my relationships and my Self. I respect my own health.

What else do I want to respect?”

 

Dissolve Destructive Mental and Emotional Patterns that Block Healthy Priorities ~

Imagine all those hidden agendas, the death wish, the push for power and control, the greed and especially the compensations that made things even worse – like a huge, black snake consuming everything in its path. This symbol for dissolving destructive blueprints will help us clear the negative pattern – out of our minds at least.

Simply see the snake dissolving or send it to the Sun until your mind is clear and your heart feels light.

Next, take a deep breath and relax your body. Allow your Soul to download its resources. Its wisdom and insight for these chaotic times:

“I am filled with the wisdom of my spirit.”

This is a good time to move around and stretch if you want to.

Make a Course Correction ~

Imagine that your Soul is gently turning you in the direction that’s best for you at this time. This is your way. Your path. The way that your heart is guided to follow that includes respect for the Earth.

Soul Prayer Charts

Now is a good time to get out into nature. Take a walk or do something you enjoy. The time you take for yourself now will help you move beyond thoughts and prayers and into fully embodied action.

Before you go – Close the doors to this healing meditation so that you don’t keep recycling finished business!

Closure for Mind Body Healing

Use the affirmations to help you:

“I seal and heal all pathways that lead back to suffering.

“I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

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Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment for any ailment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Let Go of The Cynic

A Transformation Game to Let Go of The Cynic ~

Transformation Game - Let Go of the Cynic
I let go of “The Devil.”

Transformation Games can help you to identify problems, navigate change and clarify what’s really important to you. Simply relax and gaze at the Intuitive Learning Circles™ while contemplating the accompanying positive affirmations to help you transform aspects of THE DEVIL from the Tarot.*

Relax and follow the directions… your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek!

Welcome to our Transformation Game about Tarot Card # 15 – The Devil and his little brother – The Cynic.

According to Webster’s Ninth New Collegiate Dictionary, a cynic is “A faultfinding captious critic; especially one who believes that human conduct is motivated wholly by self-interest.”

Stephen Colbert describes it even better when he says, “Cynicism masquerades as wisdom, but it is the furthest thing from it. Because cynics don’t learn anything. Because cynicism is a self-imposed blindness, a rejection of the world because we are afraid it will hurt us or disappoint us. Cynics always say no. But saying “yes” begins things. Saying ‘yes’ is how things grow. Saying ‘yes’ leads to knowledge.” 

Indeed, the role of the cynic in American culture has been considered a wise and time honored tradition. Yet, there is very little that’s wise or honorable about feeding beliefs that keep people small with one’s energy or attention. 

How Can We Let Go of the Cynic?

Sadly, the Cynic tries to block help even if it would really do him some good.

Gaze softly at the Circle below and imagine you can detach yourself from any collective, societal beliefs that being cynical is a desirable way to connect with anyone… with yourself, a mate, a business associate or anyone you know.

Release your agreement to block or reject things that are helpful.

In your mind, you can see those old agreements like piles of legal contracts burning up into ashes.

“I release agreements to buy into what others say about me.”

“I burn up negative self-talk about my worth, my efforts, my appearance or my abilities.”

“I release agreements that negate _________.”

“I stop tripping over my own self-hate. I release the chains that bind me.”

It may take a while to burn all that cynical conditioning up! But once it’s clear, make some new agreements with yourself that honor your potential and humanity:

“My new agreement is to be open to things that are truly helpful.”

I now tap into my true source of power and self-worth.”

“I respect my Soul and its purpose.”

“I lift my spirit to fulfill my true potential.”

Take time to REPAIR that blind spot!

Everyone has a “blind spot.” For some reason, we’ve been conditioned to turn a blind eye to something right around us. However, The Cynic actually functions out of a blind spot. You may want to see if you can remedy some of that by gazing softly at this Reiki Chakra Key, together with these positive affirmations:

“I reclaim and balance all of my senses.”

“I REPAIR my blind spot and see things as they really are.”

“I use my senses to become aware of the very best my situation has to offer.”

“I can clearly sense what will help me to _______________.”

What kinds of help have you been saying “no” to?

ProtectionIs there anyone who has recently offered you something that you immediately blocked or said “no” to without seriously considering it?

Have you recently poo-pooed one of your own ideas?

In each of those cases, did the “no” come from your Soul? A cynical place…? or somewhere else?

Is a message from your Soul being blocked by The Cynic?

The Cynic is not our friend!

In this case, delusions are the cause of our suffering – not other people or things. I’ve heard it said that cynicism is the father of disappointment and despair, so let’s release the beliefs that create disappointment or despair in ourselves or anyone else.

Gaze softly at the circle to your right and imagine you can close the door on any collective, societal agreement to feed these common cynical beliefs:

“People are stupid.”
“People have bad taste.”
“People want to be lied to.”
“People don’t want to get better.”
“People are basically dishonest.”
“People don’t care.”
“People are not to be trusted.”
“People are ______________.”

It is true that some people are behaving in these ways, yet to declare that it comes from the essence of their being feeds the Cynic, not our Souls! Plus, it does nothing to move us forward as a culture.

Correct the emotional ingredients you’re using to create with.

So, let’s turn those sour grapes into fine wine by transforming disappointment and resentment into dignity and self-worth! This quick series of charts from The Essential Human will change the ingredients we’re drawing from the “field of potential”:

“I let go of being overwhelmed by others. I now reclaim the will to be tolerant and respectful.”

“I close the door on  my obsession with the negative. I now choose live with satisfaction and optimism.”

“I close the door on lies and deception. I now perceive clearly by shining light on the truth.”

“I close the door on disappointment and frustration. I now accept healthy nourishment that supports me.”

“I shut the door on past resentments. I now hold hope in my heart to heal me in the present.”

Clear the habitual mental and emotional blueprints ~

We all have family patterns and social conditioning that contribute to the tendency to be cynical. You can use this symbol for dissolving destructive blueprints to identify them in your unconscious mind and clear them out. Just imagine the harmful thoughts, emotions and attitudes are like dark clouds, dissolving away or disappearing into the Sun.

Keep dissolving them until you can see yourself standing in a beautiful field with a blue sky overhead!

Shut the door on all that pain and suffering and head in the direction of Self-worth!

Now that you’ve learned some of what’s involved with The Cynic, be certain to close the door on all openings or pathways that might lead you back to what you’ve just cleared. Use this affirmation with the Circle to help you:

“I close the doors and seal the leaks – as if they were never there.”

“I head in the direction of healthy protection.”

Closure for Mind Body Healing

Congratulations! You have just let go of the cynic and dealt with one of the biggest bullies in our culture. Go out and celebrate by doing something really nice for yourself!

 


Feng Shui Mandala

Suggested Feng Shui input to counter-act the energy of The Cynic in your space:
By input, I’m talking about the information (data, art, movies, music, objects, color, elements) that you expose yourself to or surround yourself with.
When you surround yourself with genuinely uplifting input, it will produce a sensory response within you that can make all the difference in your motivation.

  • If you happen to have any objects – perhaps coffee cups or clever posters, badges or refrigerator art that displays the cynical mind at work, take them down and replace them with images that inspire and uplift your true nature.
  • Look back at the tastes that you had as a child. Consider playing the kind of music you really enjoyed or re-read your favorite adventure story. Your psyche will respond very positively to any input that you loved early on in life.
  • If you have had a feng shui or space clearing session done on your home, your environment is already set up to give you support and positive input. If you’ve never tried feng shui, try re-arranging twelve items (objects, knick-knacks, furniture, artwork, etc) in your home or office that increase your sense of self-worth (you can also go through this Feng Shui Game if you like).

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Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule.


Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

The Fool – Tarot in the New Paradigm

New Beginnings in the New Paradigm with The Fool ~

Transformation Games can help you to identify problems, navigate change and clarify what’s really important to you. Simply relax and gaze at the Intuitive Learning Circles™ while contemplating the accompanying positive affirmations about The Fool. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek. Examples:

“I reclaim and balance my five senses for improved intuition.”

“I fine tune them to be present and aware of my Souls purpose.”

“I use them to become aware of blind spots, obstacles and self sabotage.”

“I access helpful resources, solutions and opportunities.”

Welcome to the Transformation Game for Tarot Card #0 – The Fool

The Fool - Tarot for the New Paradigm

The word Fool is derived from the Latin FOLLIS meaning “Bag of Wind”. Thus the Fool symbolizes that which contains air, or breath.

The number 0 is shaped like an egg, hence it symbolizes that which contains all the potencies of growth and development. It is the beginning and the end… the Cosmic Egg of creation.

The stick or “wand” of The Fool is the symbol of a fulfilled life, authentic, and true to purpose. It carries no regrets or confusion. A wand can be imbued with valuable magic or energies, that can be protective in nature.

The archetype of The Fool offers an opportunity to shed your emotional baggage, heal past hurts, and begin anew. It represents the eternal life force that fuels all miracles and new beginnings. Faith, Courage, Joy, Hope, Humor, Trust and Innocence are all virtues that The Fool has access to. The dog can be seen as either as a warning to his master that he’s about to step over a cliff, or as a joyful and faithful companion for the exciting journey ahead.

Traditional Tarot Meanings for The Fool:

New beginnings. New pathways, a fresh start. The willingness to take a chance to get what you want. Optimism. A secret is revealed.

Folly, mania, extravagance, intoxication, delirium, frenzy, bewrayment (betrayal), treachery, disloyalty to Self or others. Negligence, absence, distribution, carelessness, apathy, nullity, vanity.

Play a Transformation Game made up of Intuitive Learning Circles™ to help you heed the warning of The Fool so that you can find the blessing.

The Fool can be a harbinger of faith or foolishness; a bold beginning or short-sighted self-sabotage. Here are some questions to ask yourself about this archetypal energy to make sure that your faith is well founded and you’re not about to jump off the cliff into unnecessary danger!

Question #1: Consider the subject of your inquiry – are you operating under an assumption? If so, does it have any veracity?

*Remember to relax and gaze softly at the Circle while you contemplate the questions…

Question #2: Are you experiencing a conflict or fixation around this subject?

Question #3: Take a moment to balance your senses again and see things as they really are.

Are you using your common sense, or are you operating under wishful thinking?

Question #4: What are the facts? Gather up what you know about your inquiry.

Are you emotionally entangled with others?

Question #5: Are you standing on firm ground? Are you in your personal space or someone else’s? If not, get grounded in the truth.

Question #6: Does this situation pull you away from your Souls purpose? If so, could you change something about the way you’re approaching it? Do you need to change your direction?

Question #7: Are you picking up on too many projections from others?

Are you listening to your inner promptings for safety?

Are you being careless? If so, how?

Question #8: Put it all together. Where are you at with this inquiry? What is going on?

What advice do you get from The Fool archetype?

Question #9: In your situation, are you about to take a leap of faith or are you stepping over the cliff into danger? Is there a decision to make or different option to take?

 

Question #10: If it is a good option, how high of a priority is it? Rate it on a scale of 1-10. If it’s a high priority, what would be a good (do-able) intention to set?

Take time to get specific and grounded as you formulate your request.

Question #11: How could your request potentially nurture you?

Ask how it could fulfill you emotionally, mentally, financially and physically.

Question #12: How about spiritually? Would this be fulfilling to your Soul?

Question #13: Do you have the karma to achieve this intention? If not, is there something you can do to create the correct conditions for success?

 

If you do have the karma, Congratulations! It’s time to take a leap of faith! Thank The Fool from the Tarot and ask for blessings from the Universe!


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Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Untangling Family Relationship Issues

Mind Exercise: Clearing Emotional Entanglements from Family Relationship Issues

Family Relationship IssuesEmotional entanglements established early in life out of family relationship issues can be very stubborn and you may feel powerless.

Sometimes there’s so much going on the dynamics of a person’s childhood, it seems impossible to let go of all the conditioning and allow something different to happen in adult life. 

There is a way through to free yourself and get some relief using the Intuitive Learning Circles™ and positive affirmations with your imagination.


Step One: Think about the relationship issues in your life that just don’t ever seem to get better. They could be relationships in love, friendship, business, or just about anything! Use this Circle to help you visualize the nature of the issues from a larger perspective.

How would you describe your experience? You might want to quickly journal your answer so that you can express it later through writing, art, music, movement or sharing your story with others.

 

Step Two: When dealing with emotional pain, breathing always helps. Gaze softly at the Circle and breathe in on the count of three. One…two…three.
Exhale to the count of six. One…two…three…four…five…six.
Do this as many times as you like. Breathing in and letting go. 

Imagine that the pain around the relationship issues you’re dealing with is like a huge iceberg. Visualize it melting, moving and breaking apart until your energy relaxes. Feel free to move at any time in any way to help you embody your experience. Continue until you feel a palpable release of tension.

Use this Circle to help you clear away any debris or garbage that’s leftover once the ice has melted. You can imagine a broom just sweeping it all away to the Sun!

 

Step Three: In Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs, the second level needs are safety oriented. They include protection from the elements, security, order, law, stability and freedom from fear. Family relationship issues often involve these needs. Second level needs are primarily processed through the 2nd Chakra (located approximately 2 – 3 inches down from your navel).

Gaze softly at the Second Chakra Key below for a minute or so. Then ask yourself: “Are these relationship issues having a negative affect on my safety and security needs? Are they causing a problem in any of my current relationships? Is my Second Chakra holding some of that energy?” 

Am I having difficulty accessing information, connection or trust? Do I need chakra healing here? if so, what would help me to bring my 2nd Chakra in balance?

 

Step Four: Now we’re going to clear some emotional entanglements around this situation. Meditate on the Circle below and imagine that you’re on your path, looking to create satisfying relationships, yet for some reason, you can’t see your way. Perhaps the path is blank, crowded or dark or has you feeling anxious and unsafe. Maybe it’s filled with junk, obstructions or debris. How frustrating it is to feel like this when you would really like to have things be different for you now!

Ask yourself, “How can I clear this path?” Gather up unconscious information.

 

 

The Essential HumanStep Five: Let’s suppose that by going through the following sequence of symbols from The Essential Human, you’ll be able clear up the path and see what you need to do to help yourself.

 

Look at this symbol for a few moments and imagine that you’re untangling a messy string of lights that would light up your way. Stay with it until the lights are all straightened out and ready to be hung.

 

 

Imagine that you’re in a playground with dozens of little children fighting and bullying each other. As you look at this symbol, imagine that you’re ringing a bell or blowing a horn. As if awakened from a nightmare, the children change their demeanor. Some start to play quietly with each other. Some leave entirely and some of them come up to you and begin playing nicely.

 

Imagine that you’re now at a garden party where lots of couples are dancing.  Suddenly, the center of the garden is filled with a pile of wriggling snakes, ruining everyone’s time! Use the symbol and ring the bell again. You can see the snakes disappearing into thin air. If there are any holes, see them close completely. Life has returned to the party!

 

Now imagine that this symbol represents the denial or resistance around your family’s relationship issues.  Use this affirmation to clear up the resistance:

“I close the door on all false information. I now perceive the truth about me.”

 

Look at the Circle and ask your heart, “Am I present and in my own space? Or am I somewhere else?

Consciously decide to be present, in your own body, your own space, using your own energy.

 

Look at this Circle and ask yourself, “Am I accessing my own karma or someone else’s to create relationships? Has someone dumped their karma on me? Is someone accessing my karma without my permission?”

Affirm to yourself: “I decide to use only my karma to create my relationships. I naturally deflect other people’s karma and return it to them. I am in charge of how my karma is used.”

“Since I don’t know how this suffering came to be, I forgive all transgressions.”

 

Step Six: Now that you’ve cleared some major entanglements, bring your senses into balance. Some may be turned up too high or some too low. 

“I see things as they really are.”

Imagine the pathway for creating your satisfying relationships again. How has it changed? Is it clearer? Does it feel better? More real?

 

Step Seven: Put it all together now. What do you need to do differently in your life to create the relationships you really want?

 

Check in with your Second Chakra again for a minute or so. Ask yourself: “Is the original relationship issue still having a negative affect on my safety and security needs? Is my Second Chakra holding energy from that situation now?”

Does my chakra need balancing now? if so, what would help me do that?

Make an agreement with yourself to follow through on the information you’ve gained through this exercise. Then close the door on all pathways that might lead you back to suffering.

“I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

Closure for Mind Body Healing

 

Congratulations! You have made some progress with emotional healing and entanglements from your family relationships. The next time you encounter the issue, notice if the dynamics have changed for you.

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Disclaimer:
This Mind Exercise should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Channels of Light | Open to Innocence

Your Soul Communicates Through Channels of Light. It’s Time to Open to Innocence ~

Kuan Yin's Transformation Games - Open to InnocenceKuan Yin has been helping us through these I Ching Readings to transition from the old economic paradigm based on greed and fear to a new paradigm of co-operation and sustainable prosperity. Her advice springs from the I Ching, an ancient book of divination that follows the flow of the cosmos. Because of that, her advice and instruction comes from a different perspective than ours.

To help you better connect with her assistance, she uses the Intuitive Learning Circles ™ to communicate through meditation, affirmations and visualization. If you have questions about the Circles, you can check out Exploring the Intuitive Learning Circles here >

Kuan Yin’s I Ching Readings and Transformation Games are meant to support your self-care and personal growth. Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating Kuan Yins words. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek.


Welcome to the I Ching Reading and Transformation Game for:

Hexagram #25 – Open to INNOCENCE

The time demands an alignment with the flow of the cosmos. This adjustment must be made before further action is taken, otherwise you will begin to make mistakes. When actions that seem perfectly reasonable and cleverly planned are executed, they will end in difficulty and confusion. In order to harmonize your actions with the cosmos, it will be necessary to adopt an attitude of INNOCENCE.  Examine your motives. They will be the cause of your problems.  This is a time for acting without conscious purpose, without ulterior motive and with complete rectitude. Do not aspire to be rewarded for your actions, nor direct them cunningly toward personal advancement. Act innocently and react spontaneously.” ~ The I Ching Workbook, R.L. Wing

This particular reading from the I Ching text serves as a reminder that when INNOCENCE is out of balance, it distorts into criticism, blame and harsh judgement. Compare this idea to the New Testament story about Jesus who steps forward to prevent a public stoning, ‘let he who is without sin, cast the first stone.’

When the channel for INNOCENCE is deeply traumatized, guilt takes form in its place. Things get communicated through the filter of guilt, which naturally spawns an environment ripe with injustice, ulterior motives, manipulation, coercion, and of course, more guilt. In extreme, a person or group may lack any kind of conscience, setting the stage for socio and psychopathic behavior to flourish. Luckily, most babies are born with INNOCENCE. However for many, the channel gets diffused, distorted, hardened or deeply traumatized by early childhood experiences. This Transformation Game is here to help you repair that channel.

Transformation Game: Open to Innocence

Start with this image that imprints the Virtue of INNOCENCE in your psyche and unconscious mind. Relax your shoulders. Take a few breaths and gaze softly at the Circle while you contemplate the 2nd changing line from Hexagram #25:

“Do not dream about the results of your work or the attainment of your goal. Instead, take action for its own sake and devote your full attention to what you are now doing. Only in this way can you achieve your aim.” ~ The I Ching Workbook, R.L. Wing

 

Mind Body Integration

Mind Body IntegrationBe sure to look at the symbol both crossed over the midline of your body and uncrossed to help you access the information more completely.


 

All Virtues are communications or channels of light that come through the Soul. Therefore, having an open heart is the first priority.

Use this Reiki Chakra Key to help you relax and open your Heart Center to the channel of INNOCENCE.

Take all the time you need to get comfortable and feel a positive resonance between the two symbols.

Your Psyche or Essential Self resides  most effectively in your Solar Plexus Chakra, the area in front where your ribs go up.

The existence of the Essential Self is discussed in many cultures and disciplines. Other names would be your Inner Child, the Authentic Self, the Golden Child or the Basic Self. Regardless of what it’s called, you can think of it as your “I am,” your true essence and direct connection with the rest of the cosmos through your Higher Self. Use the Reiki Chakra Key #3 to bring it into balance and then open to INNOCENCE once you’re ready…

If you’re having trouble letting this happen, use #32 from Gifts from the Rainforest to imagine any unwelcome resistance or rigidity melting – like an iceberg – melting away under the heat of the Sun.

“I am open to INNOCENCE. I melt away the harsh thoughts, judgements and distortions that block this Channel of Light.”

Whenever shock or fixations get cleared, it’s advisable to make sure that your senses are intact and focused on your true intention.

The Rational Thought Chakras help you to correctly perceive who you are and the world around you. They involve your five senses and are located at each ear, the eyes, the nose, the mouth and the middle of our lower back, two inches above the sacrum.

The question here is, “am I perceiving the world according to my personal ego, or my Soul?”

“I decide to clear away the delusions and see things as they really are.”

Allow Your Throat Chakra to connect and resonate with INNOCENCE as well…

The energy of the throat chakra is about what you put out into the world – having a voice. It’s about speaking your truth and is blue in color, as in ‘true blue’. Many people have difficulty with this energy center. When the throat chakra is openly resonating with INNOCENCE, your word becomes much more empowered.

Try it out using this positive affirmation: “I am free of criticism, blame and falsehood.”

Remember to scroll up and use #32 again if the energy feels stuck.

Congratulations! You have just become more open to INNOCENCE by integrating it throughout your Central Plexus with chakra healing.

Closure for Mind Body Healing

Give yourself a day or two to let this settle. Then, If you’d like and feel up to it, there are additional steps you can take to help you open the channel further. 


Use this Soul Contract Circle to identify and release conditioning from your early childhood or upbringing that contributes to encourages you to communicate out of guilt, rather than innocence. Simply gaze softly at the Circle while you use the affirmations. It can be helpful to imagine the agreements being pulled from the ground as you go through this process.

“I uproot any conditioning I have to be hard on myself, judgmental, or operate out of guilt.”

Clear your inner garden of any noxious weeds that are interfering with your ability to react spontaneously out of INNOCENCE


The Essential Human* If you have a copy of The Essential Human, now would be a good time to use Emotional Corrections A – E between pages 97 and 101 to access and balance energies you’re pulling from the ‘field of potential’.

Going through this process will help you draw on the kinds of spiritual / emotional ingredients that will support your experience with INNOCENCE. 

“I nourish the channel of INNOCENCE to support my Soul and its purpose.”

 

Divine Nature Activated

** Using symbols from Divine Nature Activated will help you release negative conditioning for an ancestral epigenetic healing. Choose between 1 – 73 to activate INNOCENCE. It will probably take more than one. With each new symbol, imagine that an old, broken DNA strand is falling apart while a vibrant and cohesive DNA strand is replacing it – healing and filling up with light.

When using these symbols, it’s important to relax and breathe while you affirm your intention:

“I am empowered to access INNOCENCE.”

Choose numbers between 1 and 73 from Divine Nature Activated to fully activate this Virtue.

Now it’s time to dissolve mental and emotional patterns that pull you off track. Use this symbol for dissolving destructive blueprints to identify and let go of  any personal, societal or familial patterns that are still affecting you in a negative way. See them disappear as you send them to the Sun:

“I dissolve the destructive energy of confusion, chaos and negativity.

“I erase patterns of blame, shame, criticism and harsh judgement.”

I dissolve the filter of guilt and send it to the Sun to be transformed.

 

Once the patterns are cleared, give your heart and Soul some relief through closure.

“All pathways of guilt, blame, suffering and confusion are sealed and healed.

I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

Congratulations! When you open to INNOCENCE, you are accessing a channel to your Soul that offers one of the most profound transformations imaginable. Be sure to rest now and take good care of yourself.


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Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule or Email: soulresources@gmail.com


Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Overcoming Indecision with Gentleness

Are You Having Difficulty Overcoming Indecision? Play a Transformation Game for Being Too Hard on Yourself ~

Kuan Yin's Transformation Games - Overcoming IndecisionKuan Yin has been helping us through these I Ching Readings to transition from the old economic paradigm based on greed and fear to a new paradigm of co-operation and sustainable prosperity. Her advice springs from the I Ching, an ancient book of divination that follows the flow of the cosmos. Because of that, her advice and instruction comes from a different perspective than ours.

To help you better connect with her assistance, she uses the Intuitive Learning Circles ™ to communicate with you through meditation, affirmations and visualization. If you have questions about the Circles, you can check out Exploring the Intuitive Learning Circles here >

Kuan Yin’s I Ching Readings and Transformation Games are meant to support your self-care and personal growth. Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating Kuan Yins words. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek.


Welcome to the I Ching Reading and Transformation Game for:

Hexagram #57 – Overcoming Indecision with PENETRATING INFLUENCE (The Gentle)

Overcoming Indecision with The Cosmic Tarot

“By attempting to penetrate all the myriad possibilities of the situation, you have dissipated the energy to influence. Great understanding means little without decisive action. Negativity can no longer be prevented.” ~ The I Ching Workbook, R.L. Wing

This particular line in the I Ching text for Hexagram #57 PENETRATING INFLUENCE serves as a warning to those who would like to avoid falling further into the collective chaos and confusion by overcoming indecision in their personal lives. This idea can be compared to the modern meme, ‘making no decision is still a decision.’

Transformation Game: Overcoming Indecision through Gentleness and Patience

Start with this Circle that helps you check into decisions that are currently affecting your health, wealth and general wellbeing. See if you have one or more decisions that need to be made in order to keep you safe and on track with your goals. Gaze softly at the Circle and ask yourself:

“Is there a decision on my horizon that needs to be made?”

Relax your shoulders. Take a few breaths and see if you can identify it. There may be more than one. Start with the one that comes to mind first.

Your answer might come in the form of words, like ‘yes’, ‘no’ or ‘maybe’. Or you could get a vague sense of something, a flash or a feeling in your gut. You might even see the whole scenario in your mind, complete with a cast of characters and scenery. Whatever comes, be patient and trust it. After all, there’s a reason why you haven’t made this decision! Decide to be gentle with yourself. 

Mind Body Integration

Mind Body IntegrationIf you’re having difficulty, look at the symbol both crossed over the midline of your body and uncrossed to help you access the information more completely.

 


Gently bring your Crown Chakra into the formula. When this energy center at the top of your head is open and balanced, you can more easily tap into information and inspiration from your Higher Self. Relax and let the energy get connected and balanced.

 

Turn your attention to this Circle and imagine that all the have to’s, supposed to’s and musts are gently melting away. Notice how you can let the lines move around and go wavey while you relax some more.

“I decide to be gentle with myself. I melt away the harsh thoughts, judgements and pressures. I let my body relax.”

 

“I release any fears of punishment, loss or retribution. I am okay. All is well.”

Old Soul

Continue relaxing while this Circle gets you in touch with your inner resources.

“I trust my intuition. I am open and receptive to my better instincts.”  

This may take a few minutes before the blockage clears. Decide to have patience for yourself. When you can be patient with yourself, it’s easier to be patient with others.

“In this case, I patiently put together the pieces. I know what to do.”

Congratulations! You have just become aware of a decision that needs to be made. Now you have more resources to help you sort it out and navigate the details. This would be a good time to take a break and do something completely different!


If you’d like, there are a couple other steps you could take that would gently help you in overcoming indecision. 

Use this Soul Contract Circle to help you identify and release conditioning from your early childhood or upbringing that encourages you to be hard on yourself. Simply gaze softly at the Circle while you use the affirmations. It can be helpful to imagine the agreements being pulled from the ground as you go through this process.

“I uproot any agreements to be harsh, or put pressure on myself.”

“I unearth patterns of behavior that prevent me from taking good care of myself.”

Clear your inner garden of any noxious weeds that are interfering with your ability to take positive, proactive action on your behalf. By doing so, you free up a lot of energy and effort that’s fighting with the way things used to be or the way others want them to be.

Being loyal to yourself is always a good basis for decision making. Use this Circle to help you imprint these positive affirmation about yourself:

“I am true to myself. I am ___________.”

“I make choices that are productive and that keep me on a positive path.”

“I let go of _________. I prepare for __________. I take care of __________.”

 

“I make a choice to focus my energy on people, activities and _________ that are genuinely beneficial.”

 

Now it’s time to dissolve mental and emotional patterns that pull you off track. Use this symbol for dissolving destructive blueprints to identify and let go of  any societal or familial patterns that are still affecting you in a negative way. See them disappear as you send them to the Sun:

“I dissolve the destructive energies of distraction, avoidance and confusion.

I send any harmful interference to the Sun to be transformed.

 

Find your good karma and send positive energy to those seeds so that your decisions genuinely benefit you.

Plant new seeds if you like!

Closure for Mind Body HealingOnce the patterns are cleared and your beneficial seeds of karma are nourished properly, give your mind some relief through closure.

Whenever an important decision is being made, take several moments to close the energy leaks or pathways of suffering between you and everyone involved with your decision. 

Otherwise, a channel remains open, allowing all kinds of confusion and opportunities for manipulation to pass back and forth between the participants. This can manifest in overwhelming states of mental confusion, issues with prosperity or abuse of power. This final step is especially important for highly sensitive people.

By closing the door to pathways that lead you back to chaos, confusion and negativity, you make a fresh start.

“All pathways of suffering and confusion are sealed and healed.

I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

Congratulations! Once you begin to take responsibility for overcoming indecision, you are on the path to creating your Soul’s destiny!”


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Rheanni Lightwater - Finding Moderation in the New Paradigm

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule or Email: soulresources@gmail.com


 

Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Year of the Earth Pig

Transforming Your Life in 2019: The Year of the Earth Pig ~

Transformation Games can help you to identify problems, navigate change and clarify what’s really important to you.  Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating the accompanying positive affirmations. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek…


Welcome to the I Ching Reading and Transformation Game for:

The Year of the Earth Pig or Boar

This year, the Chinese Horoscope animal is the Earth Pig or Boar, starting on February 5th, 2019 and ending on to January 24th, 2020. Recent Years ruled by the Pig are 1947, 1959, 1971, 1983, 1995 and 2007.

Traditionally, the positive qualities of an Earth Pig year are abundance in love, luck, health and money. However, your appetites for objects, food and possessions could get out of hand. It’s good to remember those old social memes, “more is not necessarily better” and “be careful what you ask for” because you could very easily get overwhelmed and out of balance!

To help you, this Transformation Game has been put together to increase your self-awareness, get clear about your priorities and make healthy choices so that you can stay in balance and not go “hog wild”.

Managing the Flow of Opportunities in the Year of the Pig

As you gaze at this Circle that accesses the medicine of the Earth Pig, see if you currently need some increased self-awareness around an important aspect of your life. Ask yourself:

“Would it benefit me to get inner guidance around career, money, health, home or dwelling, business opportunity or a love relationship?”

Make sure that you’re aware of the current flow of the Tao – or “gateway through which all things move.” Use some positive affirmations to help you get there:

“I choose to notice the flow of the Tao.”

“I have correct awareness of the prevailing energy in my environment.”


Mind Body Integration

Mind Body IntegrationFor best results, be sure you look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that you gather up all the unconscious information about your situation.

 


Open Your Heart So That You Can Be Inspired ~

Use this Reiki Chakra Key to balance and open your Heart Center. 

“My heart is open to the flow of joy and balanced prosperity in this situation.”

“I am centered and radiating ___________.”

“My heart is aligned with my highest good.”

Because of the chaos involved, it’s very easy to get off track and go “hog wild.” You’re going to need true loyalty to your Self and your highest good to make wise choices. Gently look at the next Circle to affirm your best intentions:

“My agreement is to remain loyal to myself and my best interests.”

“I make choices that keep me on a positive path towards my own goals.”

“I let go of _________. I prepare for __________. I take care of __________.”

 

Focus in on the open, blank space in the middle of this Circle. Send your energy to it using these positive affirmations:

“I use my energy wisely.”

“I make a conscious choice to focus my energy on genuinely helpful people, projects and activities.”

 

“I decide to let go of interference and negativity. I send them to the Sun to be transformed.”

“I am filled with light and protection for positive interactions.”

The Essential Human*Note: If you have a copy of The Essential Human, now would be a good time to use it to untangle yourself from negativity.

Once you’ve done that, you’ll probably feel quite a bit calmer and more focused.


If you’re willing, there are several other decisions you could make that could really improve how you handle opportunities. 

Let’s continue with several principles that are bound to be helpful in the Year of the Earth Pig.

Priority #1: Stay focused and calm.

The year will have many opportunities – sometimes too many! Keeping a calm and peaceful mindset will help you filter out clutter and garbage.

“I close the doors to being hard on myself, overworking, conflict, pressure, chaos and____________, etc.”

“I access serenity and peace.”

“I move with grace and tranquility.”

 Priority #2: Keep Your Choices Down to Earth and Do-able.

Be a practical pig, not a porky pig. 

“I let go of fantasies and unrealistic ideas.”

“I focus on what’s really possible for me, in my current situation.”

“Healthy limitations and good boundaries create the best conditions for success.”

“I decide that being calm and stable are healthy qualities to nurture.”

“I perceive my situation as it really is.”

 

Priority #3: Stay Grounded In Your Own Garden.

With the Earth Pig it can be pretty easy to wander off into other people’s gardens looking for yummy morsels. This is a similar tendency to ‘the other man’s grass is always greener.” Don’t buy into it.

“I remain grounded in my own garden and harvest my own blessings.”

Priority #4: Keep Your Space Clear of Garbage and Clutter.

The Pig has a natural tendency to attract too much stuff! Use this Circle to help you clear away any clutter or garbage that’s been dumped in your personal space or the landscape of your mind. You can imagine a broom just sweeping it all away to the Sun!

Once your mind feels clear, ask yourself, “Is there anything I should clear out or clean up in my physical environment?”

Priority #5: Know What’s Best for You.

Slow down and remember what’s most important for you at this time. Having too many intentions is often an unconscious contributor to burnout, failure or getting stuck in the mud. Stop and make a choice about what’s most important for you right now.

“Do I have some intentions that conflict with each other? If so, can I tell what they are?”

“Am I in the correct position for success?”

 

Now it’s time to dissolve mental and emotional patterns that pull you out of balance. Use this symbol for dissolving destructive blueprints to identify and let go of any societal or familial patterns that are affecting you in a negative way. See them disappear as you send them to the Sun:

“I dissolve the destructive energy of – extravagance, indulgence, greed, laziness, apathy, indifference or ____________, etc. ”

 

Once the patterns are cleared, close the door to pathways that lead to trouble.

“All harmful pathways are sealed and healed.

I decide to get grounded and follow the path that’s most beneficial to me.”

For most of us, the Year of the Earth Pig will be an opportunity to go within and expel deep patterns of extravagance or apathy so that we can evolve to create more sustainable systems for health, relationships and prosperity. 

You can use this opportunity to plant beneficial karmic seeds for those new systems and any other useful resources that you may need in the near or distant future.

Congratulations!

Once you begin to take responsibility for your appetites, you can bring order and new happiness into your environment!


Rheanni Lightwater - Finding Moderation in the New Paradigm

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule a session with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule or Email: soulresources@gmail.com


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Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Setting Limitations for Strong Boundaries

Are You Setting Limitations That Help You Maintain Strong Boundaries?

Kuan Yin's Transformation GamesKuan Yin has been helping us through these I Ching Readings to transition from the old economic paradigm based on greed and fear to a new paradigm of co-operation and sustainable prosperity. Her advice springs from the I Ching, an ancient book of divination that follows the flow of the cosmos. Because of that, her advice and instruction comes from a different perspective than ours.

To help you better connect with her assistance, she uses the Intuitive Learning Circles ™ to communicate with you through meditation, affirmations and visualization. Try going through the game first, and if you have questions about how to use the Circles, you can check out Exploring the Intuitive Learning Circles here >

Welcome to the I Ching Reading and Transformation Game for:

Hexagram #60 LIMITATIONS 


Setting Limitations for Strong Boundaries ~

“Extravagant behavior and lack of restraint has you into a state of difficulty. If you are now feeling regret over this and not busy placing the blame elsewhere, you will avoid further mistakes.” ~ The I Ching Workbook, R.L. Wing

When people choose to blame others and you happen to be in their crossfires, you are liable to be dumped upon. This tendency is especially common among highly sensitive people.

In this context, when someone is being “dumped upon,” it means they are consciously or unconsciously taking on responsibility for other people’s feelings, karma, behavior, etc. This tendency is unfortunate and can cause great suffering for the “dumpee”. In contrast, it creates quite a bit of freedom for the “dumper”. In fact, a dumper is often feeling overwhelmed and is unconsciously looking for someone to dump upon to get relief. Unfortunately, some people do it on purpose to further their quest for power and control.

This is a form of power based on co-dependence, not integrity.

If you feel you are in such a situation and want to do something constructive to help yourself, you can go through this Transformation Game on Setting Limitations. Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating the questions or positive affirmations that go with them. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek.

Begin By Gaging Your Willingness to Change:

If you’re willing to examine your personal habits and are setting LIMITATIONS for yourself that are healthy and life affirming, you can learn to avoid being a dumpee. To get started, ask yourself:

“Have I been willing to let other people dump on me? Have I allowed it to happen a lot in the past?” 

“Am I willing to stop this tendency in myself?”

If you have a tendency to be caught off guard by others, now is the time to set stronger LIMITATIONS. Ask your Self, “Am I currently experiencing situations where:

There’s a lot of incompetence or my  privacy is being disrespected?

People are  noncooperative, argumentative or easily offended?

There is poor health or breakups in friendship or family relations?”

If so, setting LIMITATIONS is definitely called for.

In cases such as these, forceful displays of power will absolutely backfire. Do nothing to confront people in regard to those particular situations and be very conservative with any investment of energy, time or money. Doing so would probably result in a nasty bout of dumping.

The best thing to do when dealing with the “dumper/dumpee” dynamic is to accept what’s happening and take care of yourself very sensibly. Be generous and kind to those you care about and trust, while you stay out of their business. Find new avenues of behavior that genuinely support your well-being.

In these situations, engaging in a co-dependent exchange of emotions will backfire. That’s because whenever you’re caught up in another person’s emotional turmoil, you’re in an excellent energetic position to be dumped upon.

To help yourself, gaze softly at this symbol and imagine that your karmic seeds for harmful or co-dependent habits are burning up.

“I purify my karmic tendency towards self-destruction. I now make a commitment to my higher good.”

“I release my tendency to buy into pity, self-pity, shame, guilt or blame.”

Release Fixations:

You may be experiencing shock that’s interfering with your ability to be clear about the true source of your weakened boundaries. Relax and use this affirmation to help you release whatever you’re fixated on.

“I let go of guilt trips, mind games or other fixations that cause me harm. “

“I let all rigid thoughts, memories and recurrent images soften and melt away.”

You can use this Circle like a telescope to help you find fixations in your mind and energy field. Once you find one, use the symbol to send a laser beam to break it apart or melt it like an iceberg in the Sun. There may be more than one.

Next, scan your body and energy field to do the same with any denser, hardened energies. You can even do it for the immediate space around you.

Go within and access what’s really important to you in this situation. Acknowledge any indulgences or obstacles that you create for yourself. It’s very difficult to change if you allow the truth to be blocked from your consciousness.

Setting Limitations On How You Contribute to the Problem:

Slow down and use this Circle to help you become aware of how you are approaching projects, plans, organizations and people that aren’t working in your best interest. If you let your thoughts slow down, you can begin to sense what is contributing to your problems. The very awareness of how you are tied into the problem reveals possible solutions.

“I slow down and pay attention… is there something about this situation that I’m missing and need to know?”

“I clarify my awareness of what I’m doing to contribute to the chaos.”

 

Dissolve any harmful thoughts or emotions that keep you ‘in the dark’. It might help to imagine those patterns like dark clouds that obstruct the light. See the darkness dissolve and dissipate into sunlight and clear blue skies.

Before you continue, seal and heal any holes that may have been hidden behind in the darkness. This positive affirmation works very well:

“All holes or leakages are sealed and healed.”

“I head in the direction of healthy protection.”

Be sure to do that both crossed and uncrossed over the midline of your body.

“I understand the part I have played in this situation.”

 

In this lighter, clearer mind space, ask yourself:

“What makes sense to do next?” or “How can I best protect myself in this situation?”

Congratulations! You’ve taken an important first step towards protecting your Self from being dumped on. Taking the time now to understand how you have unknowingly contributed to your own suffering is truly a gift of self-love.

Extra-intuitive Activities

The following extra-intuitive activities aren’t required, but they can really help you prevent future suffering…

Note: At any point during the rest of this Transformation Game, you may need to go back to the Release Fixations section to look for and clear additional fixations. 

Start by Releasing Your Agreement to Continue Harming Yourself in Any Way:

Tell your neurological system that you are done with behavior that puts you in harm’s way. Include buying into conflicts, contradictions, obligations, “duty,” lies, trickery or someone else’s suffering.

“I release my agreement to ____________________________.”

Make a New Intention:

“I am _________________________.”

Reclaim Your Personal Power:

Affirm that you have the ability to change your behavior easily and effectively:

“I reclaim my power, attention and energy.”

Setting Limitations On Your Unconscious Attitudes and Intentions:

If you’re approaching situations with an attitude of “I’m going to fix this,” or “I’m supposed to change how this person is thinking / behaving,” you’re setting yourself up to fall into the dumper/dumpee trap. To avoid it, stay centered and focused on your own integrity.

I close the door in my mind that keeps me preoccupied with the insanity and faults of others. “

“I decide to focus on my Souls purpose and how I can follow through on my own best interests.”

“I close the door to the maze of self-doubt, chaos and confusion.”

“I now choose freedom and integrity.”

Setting Limitations On The Direction You’re Heading:

Going in too many directions keeps you in confusion and chaos. Use this Circle to help you establish a single internal direction that will guide you in your external actions. That will help you to get where you actually want to go!

“I let go of needing to please others. I now head in the direction of my Souls true purpose.”

Gaze at this Circle for several minutes until you feel confident that you’re heading in the direction of your highest good.

Setting Limitations on How You’re Using Your Energy:

Imagine that you can form strong, healthy boundaries with this affirmation:

“I set strong limitations that block shame, blame, frustration, jealousy, impatience, panic and _________.”

“I now access healthy nourishment and support for my Souls purpose.”

Put your feet on the floor and ground in the truth of who you really are.

 

Congratulations!

The fact that you have taken the time now to strengthen your boundaries and protect yourself from shame and blame will serve you well in the weeks and months to come.

Closure for Mind Body Healing


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Rheanni Lightwater - Sustainable Prosperity in the New Paradigm

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

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Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.