Resolving Shock and Confusion

Resolving Shock and Confusion is an excerpt from RESOLVE – Soul Oriented Solutions for Staying True and Following Through by Rheanni Lightwater.

This mind exercise uses the Intuitive Learning Circle™ method for resolving shock when you are:

  • Feeling stuck, lost or helpless
  • Unable to relax tension
  • Caught in a “blank” or confused state of mind
  • Waking up at night with obsessive thoughts
  • Reliving painful experiences.

Note: This exercise is associated with the I Ching Hexagram #51 SHOCKING: “The shocks will continue and you will be faced with constant difficulties. You can survive the times if you actively change with the changes, thus remaining centered internally and externally.” ~ The I Ching Workbook, R.L Wing

Resolving Shock and ConfusionAny person involved in a traumatic event could experience disorientation, numbness, mental confusion or fragmentation. They might even disconnect and leave their body. This includes people who are witness to traumatic experiences in some way. These are all ways that the unconscious mind protects us during a traumatic event.

Sometimes people who’ve experienced a shocking event will tell you that they’re fine and not to worry about them. That’s because one of the main symptoms of being in shock is not being aware of being in shock. Why is that? During a shock, the mind goes blank as a form of protection.

Contrary to popular opinion, having a shock response is not a sign of spiritual weakness. It is a physiological event. Nevertheless, if the person doesn’t get a chance to get grounded in their body again – or if they’re not able to – serious problems may develop. Blocked energy and a constant state of fight or flight takes its toll over time. Statements like: “I can’t think straight,” “my life was shattered” or “I feel disconnected” describe the experience of shock.

If any of the above seems familiar, you can go through this mind exercise step by step to help you access your own innate healing abilities and bring yourself back into balance.

Simply follow the directions and see if you can free up some of the confusion and conflict that comes from shock.

Mind Body Integration

Mind Body IntegrationFor best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

 


Resolving Shock and Confusion

Step One:

Take several deep breaths and relax while you look at this Circle that releases shock and inner conflict.

Imagine you can use it to focus in on a conflict or rigid thought that’s blocking your way. If your mind is blank, focus on how “blank” it is. You may get a conscious image or message, or you may not.

Once you have a sense that your mind has found the blockage, imagine you can send a beam of light directly to it. Allow your laser beam to break up the fixation until it’s gone.

Check for other blockages or conflicts that you can do the same with.

Step Two:

The next step is to bring your senses into balance so that you can see and hear things without the distortion that often accompanies shock.

As you breathe deeply, let this Circle help you to adjust the volume and pitch of your senses to just the right level for you.

Soon you will be able to hear that “calm, gentle voice” inside that reminds you about what matters the most to you:

“I see things as they really are. My senses are balanced.”

“I reconnect with what matters the most.”

Step Three:

If your gut feels tight or uncomfortable, use this Circle to help you relax in your solar plexus and get back into balance there.

“It’s safe. I can feel safe again.”

Step Four:

Sometimes a person who’s coming out of shock will be disoriented and feel a bit “out of their body.” In case that’s happening with you, take a few minutes to consciously bring yourself back into your body.

“I am at home in my center. I am inside myself.”

Close your hands into fists and then stretch them out wide several times. Wiggle your toes around. Notice the time and where you are. These actions all help whenever you’re resolving shock.

Step Five:

The next thing is to make sure you’re grounded. Without proper grounding, you could be flying all over the place, wasting your time and not getting anything constructive done. That’s the last thing you want right now!

Let this Circle for grounding help you. Place both feet on the ground and your hands on each knee while you use these affirmations:

“I uproot whatever is confusing me.”

“I decide to get grounded. The Earth supports me.”

Step Six:

Oftentimes, resolving shock and confusion requires a change in priorities. There may be certain plans, ideas or habitual patterns that make you feel trapped or confused. You can use this symbol for dissolving destructive blueprints to help you identify them and dissolve whatever is confusing you.

Simply imagine that the negative patterns in your mind are like dark clouds or a jumbled maze of lines, dead ends and cages.

Once you have the image, bring the pure light of the Sun in and dissolve the maze completely.

Step 7:

The next step is to seal and heal any holes, leaks or openings in your energy field. These openings may lead to danger or allow harmful energies to attach to you.

As you gaze at the Circle, imagine harmful leaks and openings are closing as if they were never there.

“All holes are healed and sealed.”

“I follow the protection of healthy direction.”

Step 8.

To finish this exercise, let your heart recover. This Circle will help you to balance your heart energy and clear away any residual heaviness. Breathe deeply and take your time.

“I feel the heaviness lifting up out of my heart.”

“I let it go and send it to the Sun where it can be transformed.”

“I choose to be happy and healthy.”

“I resolve the conflicts and confusion.”

“I live from the heart.”


Resolving Shock: Continuing Your Journey ~

The purpose of our Soul Oriented Solutions series is to give you additional resources to turn to when you are going through difficult times and need to stay strong. You are encouraged to share this information with others whom you feel might benefit from it.

This has been one of seven self-care formulas and mind exercises from RESOLVE, a handbook for staying true and following through on your intentions by Rheanni Lightwater.

Cultivating a daily self-care practice prevents burnout and crisis fatigue, even highly sensitive people. Each exercise can be used “on the go” to help you bridge the gap between limited, fear-based reactions and the life you’ve resolved to create.

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If you feel that Resolving Shock and Confusion has helped, but hasn’t addressed all of your needs, Rheanni Lightwater, BFA, CHT, CKP is an expert in the art and science of mind body healing.Rheanni Lightwater - Develop Healthy Boundaries She has 19+ years experience in energy medicine and environmental energy clearing. Contact her if you still feel exposed, lost, or overwhelmed.

Ms. Lightwater’s mission is to assist people in creating vibrant health, happiness and prosperity. Contact her at 505-271-4612 or email:
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Disclaimer:
This Mind Exercise should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Reforming Misplaced Logic

This Mind Exercise* helps you investigate how misplaced logic or reasoning could prevent you from actualizing your goals. Let’s start with an explanation of logic that I like to use:

Logic provides an explanation of why things are the way they are. Logic is the reason why something does or does not fit together, irrespective of how you feel about it. You may want something to work in a particular way, but that doesn’t mean that it does. You cannot make it work simply through desire or thinking positively. To have good working logic, objectivity is imperative because emotions distort the facts and contribute to erroneous or misplaced reasoning.

The success of logic depends upon the proper identification of first cause, or the original and true premise. If you don’t have the true cause, the line of reasoning will be inaccurate. This kind of misplaced reasoning creates repeated mistakes and errors in judgement. So, in order for our logic or line of reasoning to work for us, we need to use underlying, original premises that are objectively accurate.

For example: One apple plus one apple equals two apples... 1 + 1 = 2

Can Misplaced Logic Impair Effective Self-care and Personal Growth?

Because of the way we are conditioned, good working logic is difficult to master. Why? Possibly because the human desire to have things work the way we want them to is very strong and often left unexamined.

misplaced logicIn order to justify or validate our feelings and passions, we tend to look for original premises that will prove our way is right. Logic used in this way is out of balance. Unfortunately, many of our beliefs about ourselves and the world are based on incorrect original premises and misplaced reasoning that we learned as children.

Example:

As a child, I used misplaced reasoning when I chose to view other people’s reactions as a premise that there was something wrong with me.

I was also taught to think that you can achieve peace by waging war. I have to conclude that there is misplaced reasoning somewhere in there as well. The two simply do not fit together and it has been proven innumerable times throughout history.”

*from the Learning in the New Paradigm Series by Rheanni Lightwater: Mind Exercises to retrain your mind to focus on “balance” or  “joy”, rather than “perfection.”


The following “game” is made up of a simple series of Intuitive Learning Circles™ and questions. They’ve been put together to help you explore your own reasoning and how you can reform misplaced logic that’s causing trouble in your life.

Mind Body Integration

Mind Body IntegrationFor best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

All you have to do is read the instructions and then follow through on the directions while you gaze softly at the Circle.


Is Your Logical Reasoning Working For You or Against You?

Step One: Choose a subject.

Relax and gently focus on a piece of reasoning that you would like to explore. You’ll know because it will be a question in your mind, like “How does this work?” “What doesn’t fit?” or “What am I missing?” Place your question in the center open space of this Circle. Give yourself a chance to gather up unconscious information and gently focus on the experience.

It will help to imagine you can bring all the energy into focus on the center, open space of each Intuitive Learning Circle™.

 

Step Two: Clarify what’s been happening.

See if you can determine the underlying premise. What is the reasoning behind your experience? Why do you think this keeps happening?

 

Step Three: Name the underlying premise and examine its results.

Let this Circle help you evaluate your behavior in relationship to the underlying premise. What do you do?

When I think or believe ___________, I _____________.

Is this misplaced logic? Is my reasoning sound?

Are the results I’m getting sustainable?

 

Step Four: Gently explore how the original premise came to be.

Was this behavior rational in the past? Where or whom did you learn this from? Was there a valid reason based on verifiable evidence?

Give yourself time to sort out your reasoning process.

 

Step Five: Get present.

Is this reasoning true under your current conditions?

What, if anything, has changed?

 

Step Six: Evaluate your choices.

What, if anything, would you like to do differently?

 

Step Seven: Free your Self from harmful underlying premises and misplaced logic.

Are there any agreements that you need to release?

What new agreements would you like to make with your Self?

 

Step Eight: Make energetic corrections to restore balance.

Bring your heart center into balance.

 

Bring your senses into balance and proper connection with your Soul.

 

Connect directly with the energy of the Earth to help you ground.

 

Dissolve destructive mental and emotional blueprints that contribute to any false underlying premises.

Visualize the destructive pattern as a dark cloud or other apparition. Either send it to the Sun or see it dissolve into pure sunlight. Do this both crossed and uncrossed. Different patterns will be accessed and dissolved. 

 

To make sure the process is complete, wait until you can see yourself standing in a beautiful, open field with the Sun shining. Your energy is completely clear…  the darkness completely gone. 

 

Focus all your energy on taking good care of yourself.

 

Step Nine: Reform your thinking.

What do you want to experience now?

 

Let your consciousness reorganize itself around your new goal and premise.

I am _________. My reformed goal is __________________.

 

Congratulations! You have just gotten to the bottom of some misplaced reasoning that’s been causing you problems! You might want to take a break, walk around or be out in nature to help you integrate these important changes.


Extra-intuitive Activities

The following extra-intuitive activities aren’t required, but they can really help you create sufficient conditions for actualizing your goals, talents and gifts…

Evaluate your Goal and Premise Using the Four Directions

Use your imagination to view your new goal and premise from the East.

Is my goal positioned correctly? _____  Is it in the New Paradigm? _____

Does it work with the new underlying premise or against it? ____  If not, can I tell what needs to change?

Do you have sufficient conditions for success from this angle? If not, what would help?

 

Use your spiritual guidance for discernment from the West.

Am I heading for danger? ____ Am I going in the correct direction? ____ Am I following my guidance to the best of my ability at this time? ____ 

Do you have sufficient conditions for success from this angle? If not, what would help? Is there another piece of reasoning that’s working against you in this situation? If so, you might want to go through the exercise again now or later.

 

Use your healthy spiritual reason to evaluate from the North.

In this situation, am I being controlled? ____ Do I have my freedom? ____

Am I respecting myself? ____ What would love do?

Do you have sufficient conditions for success from this angle? If not, what would help?

 

Use conscious decision making skills from the South.

What am I deciding? Will I be able to follow through short term and long term? _________________

Is there a conflict? ___ If so, can it be resolved? ____ Can I tell how?

Do you have sufficient conditions for success from this angle? If not, what would help?

Once you get a confident, heartfelt answer, Congratulations! You have looked at your goal and premise from several important angles. You might want to make a note of what you’ve learned and what you’re going to change.


INTEGRATION

Imagine that you can access your beneficial karma for reason and self-confidence. Gather all your good deeds in the center, blank area of this Circle.

“I access my beneficial karma.  I plant the seeds for actualizing my new goal based on true and reasonable premises.”


Completion

The mind intuitively appreciates closure. Let’s get grounded as we complete this mind exercise.

Place both feet on the floor and put your hands on your knees if you can. Gaze softly at the Circle and repeat the affirmation until you feel your body has fully settled in the present.

“I am grounded in the present. I feel strong and balanced.”


Future Pacing

Future pacing is a way to deepen the effects of any mind body healing by projecting a preferred outcome into the future. Let’s use that idea to solidify what you’ve just learned about how to be more intuitive.

Ask yourself: “How will it feel to implement this new reasoning in the future?”

What about later today or tomorrow? A month from now?

How does it feel a year from now?


Gratitude

You can thank yourself for taking the time today to clear up your misplaced logic and make new choices – a gift that will make your life a whole lot better!

Bring all the energy of gratitude and appreciation in towards the center.


CLOSURE

Finish it all up now by sealing and healing any pathways or holes that lead back to old harmful patterns or suffering.

“All holes are sealed and healed.”

Closure for Mind Body Healing

Be sure to rest now and do something nice for yourself!

 

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Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in learning difficulties and mind body healing  using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Email your request to: soulresources@gmail.com or text her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday.


Disclaimer:
This mind exercise should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment for any ailment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Gateway to Peace

Welcome to our self-care formula for emotional healing and stress – It’s time to open a Gateway to Peace.

Self-care Formula - Gate way to PeaceThis Mind Exercise was created to help you change your point of view and how you’re using your energy, so that you can more easily experience peace. Going through this simple, step by step process will help you, especially when everyone around you is intense and emotionally charged up! 

Consider using it before going to bed, to start your day in a peaceful frame of mind, or whenever you feel pressed in by people and need a time out.

All you have to do is read each step and then follow through on it’s instructions while you gaze softly at each Intuitive Learning Circle™.

An important note ~ 

mind Body IntegrationThe brain and body communicate through different channels when a part of you is crossed over the center of your body. If you feel resistant or stuck, cross or uncross a hand or foot over the midline of your body and go back to the Circle, breathing patiently. See if your thinking starts to move again. Let negative self-talk go by breathing through it.


1. Think of an intention or goal that is important to you, yet always seems to end up in some kind of struggle or frustration.

Example: staying positive while on Facebook. 

Once you have it, gaze softly at the Circle and see if you can place your intention in the center, open space. Imagine that helpful energy is streaming down each of the lines towards your goal.

 

2. What are some of the negative thoughts and emotions that come up for you when you think about your intention?

 

3. Release any agreement you have with the idea that struggling, blaming or complaining will help you to achieve your goal.

Are there other agreements you’d like to let go of?

“I’d like to change my point of view about ____________.”

“I want to disengage from _____________.”

 

4. Use this affirmation to help you clear out any negative energy from your Root Chakra.

“I clear struggle and hardship from the foundation of how I use my energy.”

“Instead I choose to be lively, connected, energized and open to peace.”

 

5. Let this symbol for dissolving destructive blueprints help you to let go of your negative thoughts and emotions.

Imagine that accusations, complaints and struggles are all like black clouds in the sky and that you can dissolve them completely. Dissolve your attachment to them.

Keep breathing deeply until the sky is completely clear.

6. Now, bring your attention to the energy center of your heart. Get connected and let it balance out.

Once you’re ready, imagine a gateway that leads to a garden of peace filled with the beauty of nature and pure sunlight. 

Allow the light to grow stronger and brighter.

 

7. Give yourself permission to open up the gate and enter your own garden of peace.

Go ahead. Open the gateway to peace in your heart and step in. Imagine the helpful energy pouring into the center of the circle again.

What do you notice? What does it feel like?

 

 8. Ground yourself by putting both feet on the floor and centering yourself. Use this affirmation:

“It’s okay to be in my garden of peace. It’s where I belong.”

 

8. What are some ways that you can protect this peaceful frame of mind and heart?

Sometimes the simplest things can make a big difference.

 

9. What are some ways that you can nurture and grow these feelings of peace?

 

10. Is there a decision to make or some inner guidance for you to follow regarding your goal or intention?

Old Soul

Make a note of it, so that you don’t forget.

 

Finish it all up now by sealing and healing any pathways or holes that lead back to old harmful patterns of frustration or suffering.

“All holes are sealed and healed.”

Closure for Mind Body Healing

Be sure to rest now and do something nice for yourself!

 

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Rheanni Lightwater - Gateway to PeaceRheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in learning difficulties and mind body healing  using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Email your request to: soulresources@gmail.com or text her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday.


Disclaimer:
This self-care formula should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment for any ailment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Self Love: A Quiz on Self-care

Are You Showing Up For Yourself? A Self Love Quiz & Self-care Alignment

Self Love Quiz

The world is filled with advice about how to do this and that. How to find love… how to be happy… what you need to wear… how you need to look. The advertising in the media has an agenda and unconsciously you know what it is: “You’re not good enough as you are – buy our product and you will instantly be fixed.”

Your own mind may be constantly fussing about the past – what you did or didn’t do – or you may be worrying about the future. Especially lately, it’s all too easy to get caught up in external dramas and ignore how important it is for us to stay grounded and keep our minds calm.  

In times like this it’s obvious that what most people need and want is love. But how can we get there? The way that seems to work best is to remind ourselves through self love. Unfortunately, we often forget to show up for ourselves and in the process, we miss out on what we want the most. 

You can take this short self love quiz that uses Angelic Guidance and your Essential Self to help remind you that you are a Being of Love.

All you need to do is gaze softly at each symbol while you read the affirmation or question that goes with it. 

Begin by asking for help from Angelic Beings of Light.

Imagine that you can ask them: “Please, help me slow down and understand how to love myself better…

Am I showing up for myself?” 

The answer you get may be “yes,” “no,” “sometimes” or ‘not lately.”

 

Continue your inquiry using this Mandala to help you access truthful information:

“Do I often show up more for others than I do for myself?”

“Do I easily get caught up in deceit and confusion?”

Truth Mandala

“Do I include myself in the equation of creating Love?”

 

“If I show up more for others than myself a lot, what is my purpose in doing so?

If I get caught up in deceit and confusion a lot, what is my purpose in doing that?”

“Is it working? How much energy do I use doing these things?

Is that really the best thing for everyone in the long run?”

 

Are you ready to realign your energy to include what’s best for you? If so, that is self love! Ask your angels to help you fill your Self with strength and courage to love yourself better. Imagine that with every breath, you are filling up with love and light. Here’s a possible affirmation that could help:

“I am important. When I am grounded and love myself, I am grounding Love in the planet.”

 

With this Circle, become aware of your solar plexus – where your Essential Self is properly positioned. See if you can relax that area and allow positive energy to move more freely.

“I am present and included in the equation of creating Love.”

If you do Reiki, you can send it right to your solar plexus.

 

Now gently look at this symbol and ask your true Self:

“Is there something I need to do, change or have that would help me to attract more love into my life?”

 

Use these positive affirmations to redirect how you’re using your energy:

“I am ready, willing and able to receive positive energy from my innermost knowing.

I am part of the equation. I am part of the solution.

I now allow myself to receive the benefits of sending Love out.”

 

Sit back and relax a moment – allow yourself to receive what you need most. Imagine what it would feel like if you allowed Love to move freely through your life – like a gentle wind. Let your Self daydream as long as you want.

 

Now imagine that your Angels are surrounding you with strength and protection.

 

Finish your self love quiz by imagining you’re facing the Sun and receiving the benefit of its life-giving, positive rays.

 

Now you’re ready to ask your question again:

“Am I showing up for myself? Do I Love who I am?

Am I sharing Love with others?”

Old Soul

If the answer is “yes,” congratulations

If the answer is “sometimes,” you’re making progress…

If the answer is “no,” decide to begin today. It’s never too late!

 

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More Help

Rheanni Lightwater - Self Love QuizRheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule.


Disclaimer: This mind exercise should not be considered as a replacement for traditional healthcare. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described in this exercise are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

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Creating Internal Safety

Understanding How the Second Chakra is Involved in Creating Internal Safety ~

The Second Chakra Is Deeply Connected to how well we Nurture and protect ourselves.

Second Chakra - Creating Internal Safety

Primary Chakra LocationsThe Second Chakra is the energy plexus where emotions, digestion and immunity all come together. When it gets out of balance or stagnant, toxic pollutants from all those sources can negatively impact your physical, emotional and spiritual health.

Your 2nd chakra is located approximately 2-3 inches directly down from your navel.

When Creating Internal Safety, Keep in Mind ~

We Unconsciously Create Whatever We’ve Been Conditioned to Pay Attention To.

If you’re paying attention to negativity, what other people are doing or what you think they’re doing, you’re very liable to become depressed and develop a compromised immune system.

It’s common for empaths or other highly sensitive people to pay a lot of attention to other people in an effort to stay safe or get along. To develop healthy boundaries it helps to know that each of us has a unique vibration and “soul color” that allows us to vibrate with the Universe appropriately. Use the first Intuitive Learning Circle™ below to help you be sure that you’re tuning into your emotions and not someone elses!

Mind Body IntegrationTo fully integrate your personal vibration simply gaze softly at the Circle both crossed and uncrossed over the midline of your body while you affirm to yourself:

“I know who I am. I distinguish my needs from the needs of others.”

 

You can help yourself even more if you consciously move your preferred karma into the center open space of the Karmic Seed Circle and pay attention to it instead of other people’s stuff!

“I set things right by letting go of other people’s karmic issues. I now focus on my own, beneficial karma to create safety and well-being for myself.”

 

Keep going by clarifying the difference between you and others:

“I am inside of my body. I pay attention to what is best for me.”

Now that you’re clearer about what’s your energy and what belongs to others, you are ready to program your Second Chakra for Creating Internal Safety for You!


Creating Internal Safety is based on SOS Mind Exercise #8: Setting Up a Safe Space

Creating Internal Safety by Setting Up a Safe Space The environment in your second chakra is very important to your self-care and emotional healing. When it’s balanced and healthy, it transmits a vibrant orange energy that attracts belonging and support. It’s also your creative center, the place where you produce your personal mana or creative energy. If it gets stagnant or caught up in emotional entanglements, your physical emotional and spiritual health could suffer. Instead of creating personal growth, you might get stuck in co-dependency or start creating toxic conditions for yourself without knowing why or what to do about it. If this sounds like something that you’ve been experiencing, you can do something about it.

In Creating Internal Safety, you’ll be utilizing your intuitive insight to implement very simple changes that can make a world of difference in how you’re creating internal safety in your personal space. You’ll discover that your intuition and unconscious mind are much more aware of whats going on than your conscious mind does!

Go through this mind exercise by reading each step and then gazing softly at the Circle that goes with it to gain insight about what creative changes you can make in your internal and/or external environment that will help you.


1. The goal of Creating Internal Safety is for you to get clarity about how well your personal space is supporting you and what you can do to make improvements. You might get insights about your body or in your external environment. After all, they are connected.

First, take some time to slow down while you gaze softly at the Circle. Breathe in and out several times. Drop your shoulders. Relax your jaw.

 

Now that you’re relaxed, imagine you can see the space within your Second Chakra (remember, that’s located about 2″ below your navel).

Zoom in, like a camera. See it moving in slow motion.

What do you notice? Go ahead and make notes about what you sense.

 

2. Gaze at this Circle and ask for help so that you can get more aware.

Is there anything in your personal space or immediate environment that could be triggering an unsettling reaction in you?

  • Is something missing? Is something present that shouldn’t be?
  • Is there toxic build up?
  • What else do you notice that doesn’t seem right?

 

3. Physical objects in your external space carry a lot of energy through them, especially if they have been gifted to you or are second hand pieces. These could be books, equipment, furniture, pictures and other objects of art. Are there any objects in your home or office that are having a negative effect on you? If so, can you identify them?

What would remedy the situation?

Does something need to be moved, rearranged, cleaned or removed completely? Can something be brought in to remedy the situation?

 

4. You could be preoccupied by things that cause you to be anxious. Relax and ask these questions:

“Is there something I can let go of that will help ease the situation?”

“if so, what is it and where is it located?”

“Am I internalizing anything?”

“Is there anything else?”

 

4. What emotion is running through you? Is it throwing you off balance?

If so, are you experiencing any emotional compulsions, obsessions or phobias?

 

6. Is there anything else that’s irritating you?

Identify it if you can.

What will remedy the situation?

Does something need to be moved, cleaned, cleared or rearranged? Does anything need to be removed completely?

Is there anything else?

 

7. Is there anything that you could bring into your space or your diet that would help you be happier or more creative?

Would anything increase your good health or emotional stability?

Could anything be done to increase your sense of safety?

What might you add that would bring more beauty into your space?

Congratulations! You can finish Creating Internal Safety by closing the door to any old pathways to suffering. Then remind yourself that your personal space belongs to you. How you take care of it has a profound effect on the rest of your life!

Closure for Mind Body Healing

 


More Help ~

Find out more about the Seven Primary Chakras and Maslov’s Hierarchy of Needs
More about Healing Emotional Pain
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If you feel that this Mind Exercise has helped, but hasn’t addressed all of your needs, Rheanni Lightwater, BFA, CHT, CKP is an expert in the art and science of soul retrieval, chakra clearing and transmuting past life karma.Rheanni Lightwater - Creating Internal Safety She has 19+ years experience in energy medicine and environmental energy clearing. Contact her if you still feel stuck, confused, or overwhelmed.

Ms. Lightwater’s mission as a Mind Body Healing practitioner is to assist people in creating vibrant health, happiness and prosperity. Contact her at 505-271-4612 or email:
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Disclaimer:
This mind exercise should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment for any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Reiki Training in Santa Fe

Rheanni Lightwater offers all levels of Reiki Training in Santa Fe, New Mexico.

Rheanni Lightwater - Reiki Training in Santa FeRheanni is a Master Healer/Teacher of the Usui Shiki Ryo Ho lineage since 2000, which includes William Rand, Mrs. Furomoto, and the Founder of Modern Reiki, Dr. Mikao Usui. 

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Rheanni also teaches GRAIL REIKI  –  The Return of the Sacred Feminine & Masculine.

Note: Because of the personal nature of this kind of work, a brief, initial consultation is required to make certain that the course you’ve selected is appropriate for you. Initial consultations are free and can be conducted over the phone, Zoom or in person.

Call 505-271-4612 or email Rheanni at: soulresources@gmail.com


Reiki is a vibrational or subtle energy transmission of Universal Life Force that Rheanni uses as the foundation for all her transformation work including the Intuitive Learning Circles™.

The principles behind Reiki are:

Reiki Training in Santa Fe

Ist Degree Reiki Training in Santa Fe – Using The Energy Medicine of Reiki for Self Healing

Activate your healing abilities and integrate body, spirit and mind with Reiki. Learn about the history of Reiki and the Usui Lineage using self-treatments and chakra balancing for amazing self-care and personal growth. This is an amazing way for you to take care of yourself everyday! Rheanni Lightwater has been a Reiki Master/Teacher since 2000 and always includes an advanced chakra activation and integration to prepare you for your first Reiki Attunement.

In addition, you will receive a copy of Rheanni’s award winning self-healing manual, Reiki Chakra Keys to help with chakra healing, activation and clearing energy blockages while you develop your intuition.

One Day Class w/ ongoing mentoring: $145.00

Call Rheanni to find out more… 505-271-4612.


Second Degree Reiki Training in Santa Fe – Using Reiki as a Practitioner

Expand your journey by learning the many ways you can facilitate hands-on Reiki Treatment with your friends, loved ones & clients. Participants learn to use the Power Symbol, the Mental/Emotional Symbol and the Distant Healing or Bridging Symbol for protection, space clearing and distant healing.

Develop intuition and the ability to sense subtle energies. Receive specialized instruction on how to use Reiki for protection, distant healing, scanning, beaming, chakra balancing and creating sacred space for healing and meditation.

One Day Class w/ ongoing mentoring: $275.00


3rd Degree Reiki Training in Santa Fe – Using the Energy Medicine of Reiki at the Master Level

Study advanced forms of energy healing such as “Psychic Surgery”, using Reiki Grids with crystals and clearing entities from spaces. Participants receive the the Master Symbol and are taught how to use it.

Two Day Class w/ ongoing mentoring: $350.00


Master/Teacher Reiki Training in Santa Fe 

For Master Level students who have completed all the previous levels and are well enough experienced in their practice to Attune and teach other students. Instructor approval is required for this level.

One Day Class w/ ongoing mentoring: $150.00


Grail Reiki Attunements and Advanced Energy Healing Training

are available from Rheanni for those students who have received the Master Symbol and want to incorporate the Return of the Sacred Feminine and Masculine into their practice. Call for more info: 505-271-4612.


Reiki Power Circle

Also available are Reiki Eclasses featuring innovations in self-care and personal growth. Learn about our evolving energy fields, the philosophy and principles of Reiki and Grail Reiki along with tips and advanced energy medicine for the New Paradigm.


Extra Intuitive Activitties

If you’re interested in Reiki, you might enjoy this Transformation Game with Reiki Deva, Kuan Yin – Chakra Balancing with Reiki!


 

Find out more about our other Intuition Training Programs

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Robert S. Morrison DCH and Rheanni Lightwater CKT, CHT have over 33 years combined in mind body healing and are dedicated to connecting you to your highest potential!

Call 505-271-4612 or email Rheanni at: soulresources@gmail.com

Healing Emotional Abuse

Transformation Game: Healing Emotional Abuse from Our Collective Karma

Healing Emotional Abuse - Transformation Game The key to healing emotional abuse and remaining positive in difficult times is to remember the bottom line – you are a being of love!

Sometimes we forget or never believed it in the first place. We allow past patterns of fear, hatred or abuse to influence us. One of the main ways that this happens is through confusion.

In order to move into the New Paradigm, we need ways to address the collective karma that is at the source of the confusion. In order to help with that, I’m inspired to share a powerful process that has helped many people shift negative collective patterns into positive well being. It’s called Healing Emotional Abuse– R Lightwater

Kuan Yin's Transformation GamesTransformation Games are inspired by Kuan Yin, a beloved and respected healing guide among natural health and energy medicine practitioners.

*Caution! Her advice is, as always,  direct and to the point!


“Did you know that a person who is stuck in confusion is probably under the influence of karmic patterns of abuse?
Some patterns are about individual karma and some are collective patterns. In other words, we are all affected by them in one way or another. A poignant example would be the tragedy of 9/11. Or Nazi Germany in World War II. All of us share the collective karma of that event, although the level of our involvement varies with each of us, of course.
The game below is made up of Intuitive Learning Circles™ that can help you disentangle from collective karma that’s causing you harm in the present. Simply go through the game by answering pertinent questions that will activate your heart wisdom and give you a new perspective.”

Step One: Gaze at the Circle for a moment and then consider this question:

“In what aspect of my life am I experiencing confusion or fear?”


Use the answer that came to you as the basis for the game so that you can disengage from the confusion and release your fears very quickly. If there is more than one situation causing you to be angry or fearful, go ahead and play the game again specifically for each situation. The best way to take the energy out of anything is to stop feeding it and turn your attention to whatever you love. That is exactly what Healing Emotional Abuse will help you to do with these unconscious patterns.”

How to Play Healing Emotional Abuse:

Simply gaze softly at the images below while you ponder the statements or questions that go with them. Use the symbols to help you go within and access new energy and clarity.  What you do with the information you come up with is up to you!

Mind Body Integration

Mind Body IntegrationFor best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

 

Step Two: Relax with this symbol and repeat to yourself several times:

“I am ready, willing and able to shift my perception from negative to positive.”

 

 

Step Three: While looking at this Circle, think of an aspect of your life that is troubling you. Ask your heart:

“What doesn’t seem right about how I am feeling?” or

“Is there a particular time when I feel especially anxious or confused?”

 

Step Four: Notice how this situation may shut you down or agitate you by opening your mind to confusion and turmoil. Breathe a few times and allow this Circle to help you calm down and get back into balance.

 

Step Five: Use this Circle to really tune into your heart. You can do this by focusing your attention in on your actual, physical heart.

Once you feel a connection, ask for help from your Soul resources.

Soul Prayer Charts

 

 

Step Six: Use this symbol to help you dissolve any feelings of agitation, heaviness, confusion or fear that you might be feeling right now.

You can imagine the turmoil is like black clouds.

Continue to use your imagination to bring in the Sun and see the clouds breaking apart, dissipating into a clear, blue sky.

 

Step Seven: Now take a moment and focus on something or someone that you truly love. It could be a place in nature, a favorite animal, a person that you care deeply for. You can use this affirmation if you like:

“I turn my attention towards love.”

It also helps to place an image of what you love in the center, blank area of the Circle. Be sure to take all the time you need with this.

 

Step Eight: Imagine that you are creating something beautiful as an expression of your love. Allow yourself to plant the karmic seeds in your heart for love to blossom and grow.

 

Step Nine: Continue to visualize being calm and serene. Let your body drop into that feeling and let yourself unwind. You know what that feels like don’t you? So relaxed and very, very calm.
Imagine a gateway to loving kindness opening before you.

All  doors to anxiety or fear are closing.

 

 

Step Ten: If you really want to find out what it’s like to receive love, gaze softly at this symbol and play with your breath for a few minutes.

  • If you’re uncomfortable or tight – move around.
  • If your breathing feels stilted or anxious vary the tempo, the length and breadth of it.
  • Stretch. Fire breathe. Whatever it takes!

“I let go of the constraints that inhibit my body, mind and spirit.”

 

 

Step Eleven: Send any remaining heaviness or turmoil to the Sun. As it goes, feel the lightness and ease spreading throughout your entire body.

Your shoulders are dropping. Your breathing has gotten deeper and deeper.

You are surrounded by protection and comfort.

 

Step Twelve: Now, you’ll want to be sure that you’re heading in the right direction so, use this Circle with the affirmation until you feel the change has taken place:

“I’m heading in the direction of love.”

 

 

Step Thirteen: Finally, make a firm decision that you are done with this abuse and that you’re not going back. With this Circle, find the holes, openings or pathways that take you back to the past and close them – as if they were never really there.

“All holes are sealed and healed.”

“I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

 

12. Finish the game by making sure the protective coating of your aura is all sealed and healed – an important step that will help your health and your focus even more!

Congratulations!

Now that you’ve extricated yourself from all that, take some time to rest and nurture yourself. Now would be a great time to take a walk or spend time in nature – doing something you love. Allow yourself to receive the blessings that come from leaving the past behind and healing emotional abuse.

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Rheanni Lightwater - Healing Emotional Abuse

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule.


Disclaimer:
This game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Finding Moderation In the New Paradigm

Are You Too Distracted or Putting Yourself in a Dangerous Position? Finding Moderation is the Key to Your Success.

Kuan Yin's Transformation GamesKuan Yin has been helping us through these I Ching Readings to transition from the old economic paradigm based on greed and fear to a new paradigm of co-operation and sustainable prosperity. Her advice springs from the I Ching, an ancient book of divination that follows the flow of the cosmos. Because of that, her advice and instruction comes from a different perspective than ours.

To help you better connect with her assistance, she uses the Intuitive Learning Circles ™ to communicate with you through meditation, affirmations and visualization. If you’re unsure about how to use the Circles, you can check out Exploring the Intuitive Learning Circles here >

Kuan Yin’s I Ching Readings and Transformation Games can help you to identify problems, change your focus to positive solutions, ground yourself and get in the present. Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating Kuan Yins words. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek.


Welcome to the I Ching Reading and Transformation Game for:

Hexagram # 15 – Finding Moderation

I Ching Hexagram #15 Finding Moderation

“Let’s use the analogy that describes this period of time to a massive highway system that has thousands of different freeways available for you to travel on – or not, depending on what you choose…

Many of those freeways are traveling on the I Ching energy of Hexagram #36 CENSORSHIP. The text of The Book of Change warns about being directly confronted with forces that threaten your inner conviction and the attainment of your goals. Although difficult, this situation can help you learn to accept times of evil:

‘If one attempts to aggressively deny or ignore evil, then evil is often nurtured in one form or another. Good and evil are as much a part of the cosmos as night and day. It is much easier to develop a sound character once evil is acknowledged and accepted as part of the world.’ ~The I Ching Workbook, R.L Wing

A great number of other freeways are moving in the flow of Hexagram #23 DETERIORATION. As one might guess, those who are traveling through these are having things fall apart and experiencing a lot of communication problems. If this is where you are at, The Book of Change warns against forging ahead with your plans. You will simply be advancing into #47 ADVERSITY or possibly even disastrous DANGER, #29. 

Luckily, there are also some freeways that are moving with the flow of MODERATION, Hexagram #15. ‘The predominant forces … are in the process of balancing extremes and harmonizing interests.’ ~ The I Ching Workbook, R.L. Wing

The ancient Chinese text description of MODERATION can be compared to the modern meme ‘everything in moderation’ where the best way to make progress is to disengage from extremes and opinionated attitudes and follow the guidance that comes from within. If you are able to do so, there will be improvement in whatever you undertake.

Finding Moderation and Following that Path

Generally speaking, MODERATION is the more advantageous flow to follow, however that’s admittedly difficult when there’s so much chaos. Karma that’s ready to be triggered is abundant because chaos is like that. For many people, soul contracts have been completed or need to be released because they’re probably either:

1. feeling threatened, at risk or censured,

2. caught in the chaos of things splitting apart or

3. seeking harmony and balance by letting go of extremes.

As you gaze at this Circle that accesses karmic seeds, see if you are currently experiencing one of these forms of interference. Ask yourself:

“Am I generally experiencing situation #1, 2, or 3?”

Maybe a mix of each depending on your mindset?

Whichever one it is, you can make your life easier by letting go of any karmic agreement that is complete – over and done with or that is causing you harm in any way.

Mind Body Integration

Mind Body IntegrationFor best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

 


Let Go So You Can Be Present

Use this Soul Contract Circle to help you identify and release the agreements. Simply gaze softly at the Circle while you use the affirmations. It can be helpful to imagine the agreements being pulled from the ground as you go through this process.

“I uproot any agreement to ignore, deny or support evil.”

“I let go of things that are falling apart or finished entirely.”

“I release patterns of behavior that support co-dependency, extreme, deception or elitism.”

Clear your inner garden of any noxious weeds that are interfering with your family, friend or business relationships. Include organizations you’ve been involved with, political agendas, completed projects, places you’ve lived, modes of transportation, communication issues, ways of doing business, etc.

By doing so, you free up a lot of energy and effort that’s tangled up with the way things used to be or the way you wish they were.

Because of the chaos involved, making any kind of reliable prediction is next to impossible. You’re going to need all the presence and energy you have to help you during times such as these. Gently look at the next Circle while you affirm these helpful affirmations:

“My new agreement is to stay in the present and deal with what is honestly.”

“I make choices that keep me on a positive path.”

“I let go of ____________. I prepare for ____________.”

 

“I make a choice to focus my energy on people and activities that are genuinely beneficial.”

 

“I decide to let go of harmful distractions and negative attachments. I send them to the Sun to be transformed.”

You probably feel a bit calmer now that you’ve let go. If you’re willing, there are several other decisions you could make that could really improve your situation. Let’s continue with a couple of extremes that might be making it hard for you to find and stay on the road to MODERATION:

Extreme #1: The 24/7 syndrome.

Here is the prime example, ‘Being busy = being important.’ You might want to let go of that, because this is a terrible time to overload yourself.

“I release any agreement to be perfect or superhuman.”

“I let go of the pressures I put on myself.”

“I release any agreement I have to overwork myself.”

“I decide that I’m okay the way I am.”

“It’s okay to slow down, catch my breath and relax.”

“It’s okay to make things easier and enjoy life.”

 

Extreme #2: The ‘if some is good, more is better’ extreme.

For example: The Sun is good, however too much Sun causes cancer. Butter is good, yet too much butter causes weight gain, etc. Another example is: ‘There are no limits. I want it all.’

“I let go of extremes and unrealistic behavior.”

“Healthy limitations and boundaries can benefit me.”

“I decide that being calm and stable are healthy qualities to nurture.”

“I am now finding moderation in my behavior.”

 

 

Extreme #3: The ‘too many choices, not enough time’ extreme.

Heading off into fifteen different directions can cause panic, overwhelm and poor planning. Multi-tasking will probably blow you out of finding MODERATION. If you want to succeed, stop and make a choice about what’s most important for you right now.

 

Now it’s time to dissolve mental and emotional patterns that pull you off track. Use this symbol for dissolving destructive blueprints to identify and let go of  any societal or familial patterns that are still affecting you in a negative way. See them disappear as you send them to the Sun:

“I dissolve the destructive energy of this mindset and any connection I have ever had to it.”

 

Once the patterns are cleared, close the door to pathways that lead to trouble.

“All harmful pathways are sealed and healed.

I decide to get grounded and follow the path that’s most beneficial to me.”

For some people, finding MODERATION signifies an opportunity to go within and expel deep patterns of fanaticism within their psyche so that they can evolve and emerge from that pattern, much as a beautiful lotus emerges from the muck and mire at the bottom of a pond.

You can use this opportunity to plant new karmic seeds for MODERATION and any other useful qualities that you may need in the near or distant future.

Congratulations!

Once you begin to take responsibility for your own destiny you can bring order and new happiness into your environment!”

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Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule or Email: soulresources@gmail.com


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Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Learning from Danger

Increase Your Awareness by Learning from Danger

Transformation Game - Learning from DangerKuan Yin has been helping us through these I Ching Readings to transition from the old economic paradigm based on greed and fear to a new paradigm of co-operation and sustainable prosperity. Today, her advice about learning from danger springs from the I Ching, an ancient book of divination that follows the flow of the cosmos. Because of that, her advice and instruction comes from a different perspective than ours.

To help you better connect with her assistance, she uses the Intuitive Learning Circles ™ to communicate with you through meditation, affirmations and visualization.

Mind Body IntegrationMind Body Integration

For best results playing a Transformation Game, look at each Circle both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

 

Kuan Yin’s I Ching Readings and Transformation Games can help you to identify problems, change your focus to positive solutions, ground yourself and get in the present. Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating Kuan Yins words. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek.


Welcome to the I Ching Reading and Transformation Game for:

Hexagram # 29 – Danger

Learning from Danger

I Ching Transformation Game - Learning from Danger

“There are times when none of our efforts to solve a problem are effective and the way out of DANGER is blocked. Often, all that you may do is wait. When that is the case, there are still things that you can do to become more aware of yourself by learning from DANGER

‘Frequent encounters with DANGER are a part of life. Beyond making you inwardly strong, familiarity with DANGER, like the near brush of death, can instill in you a profound awareness of the life force and the mysterious nature of the cosmos. Such heightened awareness can bring new meaning, determination. and richness into your life.’ ~The I Ching Workbook, R.L Wing

Generally, the text from Hexagram #29 talks about DANGER that exists in your immediate environment. Responding correctly is really about Right Action – knowing when and how to take action with clarity of mind. Sometimes it’s best to take minimal action or do nothing at all. Awareness and keeping your wits about you are really the keys.”

Learning from Danger – A Transformation Game

This Game uses the Intuitive Learning Circles™ to help you gain a deeper understanding of the dangers facing you. For example, you may know that something is wrong, and not be able to put your finger on what it is. This game can help you identify it.

Or

Your desires could be leading you into danger time and time again and you’re not learning from it. You can use this game to explore what that is about and see if there’s something you can do to transcend the habit.

Step One: Uncovering Awareness of the Danger

Gaze at this Circle that accesses unconscious, intuitive and instinctual knowledge about a danger you are facing now. Imagine that you can gather up that inner library of experiences and see what kind of Soul Resources you can come up with. Ask yourself:

“What is the real danger about?”

“Where is it and how is it affecting me?”

Take your time and let the information emerge. 

“How much harm is this situation causing for me and for others?”

Step Two: Seeing it Calmly and with Discernment

Let this Circle help you tune your senses to a comfortable level. They may be turned up too high, too loud or intense. Gaze softly at the symbol and breathe for a couple minutes to gather up your wits. Relax and bring your senses into balance. If it helps, you can use this affirmation:

“I calm down and see things as they really are.”

 

Step Three: Clarify the Right Action(s) to Take

Use this Circle to help you identify possible solutions that you can honestly take upon yourself without placing yourself in further, unnecessary danger.

“What is an effective action I can take?”

“When and how might I go about doing that effectively?”

“Are there other helpful actions I could take?”

You might want to make a note of the suggestions that come. Times of danger can be filled with distractions which can make it easy to forget. 

Step Four: Close the Doors to Actions that Escalate or Invite Further Danger.

Your unconscious mind knows what things are helpful and what things are harmful to your body, mind and spirit. Imagine that the harmful pathways in your mind are closing now. See them disappear, as if they were never there.

“All harmful pathways are sealed and healed.”

Congratulations on your newfound awareness about learning from danger!

“The time of DANGER can be especially good for inner development. By holding to fixed and virtuous ethics, by maintaining your inner vision and ideals, all things fall into a steady, tangible perspective. You will know your relationships to your environment, and in this way you can accomplish your aims. Although subjective, this perspective is now in accord with the problems facing you.” ~The I Ching Workbook, R.L Wing

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Rheanni Lightwater - Learning from Danger

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule.


Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment for any ailment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

How To Develop Healthy Boundaries

SOS Self-care Formula #4: Develop Healthy Boundaries

SOS - Develop Healthy BoundariesMany people, especially those who are highly sensitive or empathic, want to learn how to develop healthy boundaries because they are so open to thoughts and energies coming from other people. Sometimes those thoughts get attached in their minds and spin around, causing a great deal of discomfort.

If the pathways remain open, all kinds of trouble (karma, issues, illness or confusion) can pass back and forth between people without their awareness. If left unchecked, this type of attachment can eventually manifest in negativity, sudden and mysterious illnesses, mental confusion, issues with prosperity or chronic states of overwhelm.

It’s a  valuable skill to know how to shift your energy.

Self-care Formula #4 from SOS – Soul Oriented Solutions uses affirmations and the Intuitive Learning Circles™ to help you learn to consciously close off the pathways to busy or negative thoughts and shift into a more positive mindset. If that’s something you’d like to do, welcome to Develop Healthy Boundaries and Quiet a Busy Mind!

Use Develop Healthy Boundaries when you are:

~ Agitated or feeling out of sync
~ Distressed by recent news
~ Getting negative or anticipating hardship
~ Feeling claustrophobic
~ Unable to meditate or sit still
~ Obsessed with a particular person or situation.

How it works: Find a quiet place if possible, where you won’t be disturbed for about twenty minutes. Follow the sequence of symbols while you read their accompanying instructions. Gaze gently at each Circle for about two minutes. A longer or shorter time may be necessary.

Mind Body Integration

Mind Body IntegrationFor best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

 


Let yourself breathe and relax as much as possible. Don’t worry if the images move around or change in any way. That just means the Circles are working and that your mind and body are relaxing.
Be sure to go through the entire formula and at the end, give yourself time to rest and integrate. Developing a quiet mind and light heart changes your perspective and that makes it easier to accomplish your goals.


1. Begin by consciously breathing in on the count of three and slowly exhaling on the count of five. It’s helpful if you can breathe in through your nose.

Do that three or four times while you gently focus on this Circle.
Continue breathing and bring your awareness to your tailbone.

Balance – What do you need to get in balance about?

 

2. Keep breathing with your belly soft and relaxed.
Let your shoulders drop.
Gaze softly at the Circle and imagine you can turn down the feelings or thoughts that are turned up too high, just like the volume on a radio dial.

Calm – What are some thoughts that relax you?

 

3. See if you can collect any noisy thoughts or distractions into the center of the Circle. You may sense something like a web or a bunch of strings that have gotten all tangled up with each other or you may get a sense of an open, gaping hole. Whatever it is, bring it all into the center.

Gathering – Are there any distractions to let go of?

 

4. Now that you have all the distractions gathered up, let the next Circle help you close that gaping hole or any other open pathways between you and all those noisy thoughts.
Keep closing the hole until all pathways are completely sealed and healed.

Protection – Is there anything you need to say goodbye to?

5. Now you’re ready to shift your attention. Breathe in and exhale. Beauty is everywhere. Consciously turn your attention to it.
Take your time and let the Circle help you call the most majestic, inspiring scene into your mind that you can imagine. Form a mental picture of what it’s like. Imagine the sounds and how it would feel to be there.

Beauty – What is a beautiful place you remember or would like to go to?

 

6. Come back to your breathing again and notice how calming it is.
You can sense the steady rhythm of your heart.
The gentle expansion and contraction of your lungs.
Breathing in and letting go. Learning to trust.

Trust – What do you trust? Could anything be done to increase your sense of trust?

 

7. Give yourself permission to slow down and turn your attention to what really matters to you. Can you name what’s most important?
Let the Circle help you lift any pressure you may feel right up off of you.
Without all that pressure, it’s easier to know what your true priorities are.

Intention – What’s important to you now?

 

8. Gather your resources and get present in your body. Put your feet on the ground and feel your connection with the Earth.
If you like, you can stretch or move around in any way that feels good.
Flexing your fingers and toes can really help you become more aware.

Presence – What do you feel in your body?

 

9. Imagine with each new, relaxing breath you are able to fill your heart with compassion and understanding for yourself.
Let any heaviness you feel lift up and out of you.
Dark clouds are dissolving into blue skies and sunlight. Your mind is clear.

Surrender – What is something you can do that expresses love?

 

10. Before you finish this formula, make a commitment to stay centered and follow through on your priorities. Your health and happiness are important.
You can easily deflect other people’s thoughts or expectations.
It’s genuinely joyful to have a quiet mind and a light heart.

Resolution – What other joyful decisions can you make?

11.  Use the Circle to help you finish closing any remaining pathways that would lead you back to the noise and distractions of the external world.
Close the doors and seal the leaks – as if they were never there.
You are calm. Your mind is able to rest now.

Completion – How do you feel now?

Congratulations!  You’ve learned the Intuitive Learning Circle™ way to develop healthy boundaries. Having a quiet mind and light heart changes your perspective and that makes it easier to accomplish your goals.

Be sure to give yourself time to rest and integrate.


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How to Develop Healthy Boundaries is Formula #4 in the full edition of this self-care journal available through Soul Resources LLC – only $19.95 plus shipping

SOS-Soul Oriented SolutionsSOS – Soul Oriented Solutions

For Your Inner Journey from Emotional Stress to Self-love

SOS Soul Oriented Solutions is a quick, step by step guide with 9 exercises for anyone healing emotional stress, dealing with anxiety or managing ptsd in uncertain times. Use this powerful tool to enhance your intuition training and creative journey of personal growth.

SOS Ebook available as a pdf – $7.95 USD


Specialized Energy Clearing with the Author of SOS

If you feel that Develop Healthy Boundaries has helped, but hasn’t addressed all of your needs, Rheanni Lightwater, BFA, CHT, CKP is an expert in the art and science of mind body healing.Rheanni Lightwater - Develop Healthy Boundaries She has 19+ years experience in energy medicine and environmental energy clearing. if you still feel exposed, lost, or overwhelmed, she is available for Online Sessions or in person when you visit Santa Fe.

Ms. Lightwater’s mission is to assist people in creating vibrant health, happiness and prosperity. Contact her at 505-271-4612 or email:
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Disclaimer:
This self-care formula should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment for any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.