Unearthing Emotional Conflict

A Transformation Game for Handling Emotional Conflict ~

Transformation Games can help you to identify problems, navigate change and clarify what’s really important to you. Simply relax and gaze at the Intuitive Learning Circles™ while contemplating the accompanying positive affirmations that help you unearth emotional conflict using the I Ching and the Tarot.*

Relax and follow the directions… your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek!

Welcome to our Transformation Game about Hexagram #6 – Conflict

Transformation Game - Emotional Conflict
* Illustration by Norbert Losche’ – Cosmic Tarot

Sometimes the reason we’re experiencing emotional conflict is because we’re being dragged into unhealthy patterns from the past. These could be societal expectations, a family pattern or it could be an unhealthy, entangled relationship you have with an individual.

The I Ching says about CONFLICT:

“You may be facing a major disillusionment in your life as you begin to realize that what you believed to be a universal truth is only your subjective view of the situation. You will have to reconsider your premise more realistically. The need for an inner adjustment yielding a more harmonious outlook is indicated.” ~ Hexagram #6 CONFLICT, The I Ching Workbook, R. L Wing

 

To find out if that’s happening, gaze softly at the Intuitive Learning Circle™ and ask yourself:

“Am I tangled up with someone else’s belief or desire?”

“Is that entanglement pulling me into the Old Paradigm of greed and inequality?”

“Is it dragging me into an unhealthy trajectory that isn’t my Soul’s path?”

If the answer you get is”no,” that’s great! Your Soul is in charge and you’re staying grounded in the New Paradigm of equality, personal responsibility and sustainable prosperity.

However, if the answer you get is “yes,” “maybe,” or “sometimes,” you may be losing your footing, or even worse, weakening your connection with your Soul! What can you do?

1. Get Yourself Into the Best Position To Clear Your Emotional Conflict.

You could be having trouble with your Third Chakra, located at the solar plexus (in the front where your ribs go up). Your Psyche or Essential Self resides most effectively in that location.

Take a minute or so to gaze softly at the Reiki Chakra Key for chakra healing so that your Essential Self can access its power effectively.

The existence of the Essential Self is discussed in many cultures and disciplines. Other names would be your Inner Child, the Authentic Self, the Golden Child or the Basic Self.
Regardless of what it’s called, you can think of it as your “I am,” or your true essence.

2. Identify Mistaken Ideas That Can Cause Emotional Conflict.

Now that you’ve got your positioning right, let’s see if we can find out exactly what’s causing problems for you right now.  Gaze softly at the Circle below, and imagine you’re looking at yourself in a mirror. Ask yourself these questions:
“What is the biggest challenge I’m facing right now?”
“What are the voices from my critical mind saying about it? Is that the truth?”


“How do I see myself in this situation? Is this an accurate reflection of what is really happening?”
“Am I buying into a mistaken idea that’s interfering with my truth or ability to succeed?”

3. Get Specifics About This Particular Emotional Conflict.

Ask yourself if your energy is actually tangled up with someone around this issue.

Are harmful or controlling thoughts being directed towards you? Are you giving yourself a hard time with negative self-talk?

If so, can you tell what the nature of those thoughts might be?

Is this conflict affecting your health and/or safety?

If so, can you tell in what way?

4. Make a Decision to Detach From Harmful Influences.

If the answers you get are distressing to you, it’s time for your Soul to reclaim your personal authority and detach from the conflict. Note – Once you’ve detached, the conflict may still be there, but you’ll be relating to it differently.

Relax and use this sequence of symbols and positive affirmations to help you detach…

“I decide to detach from past resentments and the conflicts they create – in the past, now and in the future.”

 

“I let go of the confusion around this conflict. I now choose thoughts that support my freedom and happiness.”

 

“I let go of the poison and negativity that surrounds me and take responsibility for my own happiness.”

 

“I decide that my Soul is now in charge. I let go of mistaken ideas, shame, coercion, blame, guilt and punishment. I let go of the desire to take things personally or waste my energy on emotional conflicts.”

“I learn from past mistakes and they are forgiven.”

 

 

“I reclaim my connection with my Soul.”

“My Soul is in charge of detaching from and clearing away false or harmful influences.”

“I follow the guidance and integrity of my Soul.”

5. Dissolve Destructive Mental and Emotional Patterns:

Imagine all those emotional conflicts and the ways you get caught up in them are like a huge storm cloud trying to surround and engulf you. This symbol for dissolving destructive blueprints will help your Soul clear the negative pattern. All you have to do is breathe and have the following intention as you gaze softly at the image:

“I dissolve all the patterns of this emotional conflict and any ways that I attach to them.”

“I dissolve shame, blame, falsehood, entrapment, gullibility, guilt and ____________.”

Simply see the cloud dissolving or send it to the Sun until you can see yourself standing in the middle of your own personal garden, filled with beauty and brightly colored flowers.

6. Reclaim Balance:

“I bring myself back into balance. Both feet are firmly on the ground.”

7. Make a Course Correction:

Imagine that your Soul is opening your Heart center and connecting with it. Feel the light within you getting stronger and allow your Soul to make the necessary changes. This is your garden. Your way. The way that your heart is guided to create – free of this emotional conflict.

Next, take a deep breath and relax your body. Allow your Soul to download its resources – its wisdom and awareness for creating your highest good:

“I am filled with the wisdom of my spirit.”

Take note of where you feel this new awareness moving through your body. Allow yourself to enjoy it.

8. Say Good-bye to Old Pathways of Conflicts.

Before you go – close the doors to all that suffering so you don’t keep recycling finished business!

Use these positive affirmations to help you:

“I seal and heal all pathways that lead back to conflicts, punishments and suffering.”

“I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

Congratulations!

Now is a good time to get out into nature. Go for a walk or do something you enjoy. The time you take for yourself now will help you move beyond emotional conflict and into fully embodied action.


Rheanni Lightwater - Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family, environment and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule.

Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment for any ailment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Manifest Happiness In The New Paradigm

Join a Power Circle where you can learn how to use your intuition to help you manifest happiness.

Manifest Happiness in the New Paradigm

Soul Resources LLC and Rheanni Lightwater is offering an Intro to the Manifest Happiness Circles. These Circles are for artists, teachers, mothers, fathers, healers, inventors and anyone who genuinely wants to connect with their Soul and reclaim their power with integrity and purpose.

The Intro is the first in a series of five 2  1/2 hour workshops designed to resolve mental and emotional patterns that keep us stuck in the old paradigm and obstruct the realization of peace and prosperity in the New Paradigm.

Course materials utilize Reiki, Hypnotherapy, Peruvian Shamanism, Hawaiian Huna, and Feng Shui principles of balance and the Intuitive Learning Circles™. 

 

The special cost for the Intro is $40.00. Call for class location. Participation in this class is by interview only. Please call Rheanni Lightwater at (505) 271-4612.

Details:
Private Manifest Happiness Circles are One and 1/2 hours long and cost $120.00 plus tax.
Group classes are $65.00 plus tax per person per class. Class Size is limited to no more than six participants.
Gifts from the Rainforest - Animal Totems for Inner GuidanceThe Essential HumanText books (required after Intro) : Gifts from the Rainforest and The Essential Human = $40.00 each.

Check, cash and credit card accepted.
All in person classes take place in Santa Fe, NM or online through Zoom.

Rheanni Lightwater, CHT, CKP, Reiki Master TeacherRheanni Lightwater is a Feng Shui consultant, Kinesiologist, Hypnotherapist and Master Teacher of Reiki in Santa Fe. She has been an intuitive in medical clinics and continues her work in private practice. To find out more, call or text (505) 271-4612 to schedule a free initial consultation.


Let’s start with a couple of quick explanations of happiness and unhappiness that we’re going to use as underlying principles to the Circles ~

1) Happiness is a heart centered state of being where a person is internally creating their experience and more likely to attract their needs in an open, natural way. As they experience happiness, they are self-confident and living the concept that “what you put out comes back to you.” They take responsibility for their personal growth and know that their mindset is important in maintaining their happiness.


 

Blockages to Happiness2) Unhappiness is a state of being where a person is focused on external conditions and the delusion of powerlessness. They look for answers outside of themselves. It’s important to note that unhappiness can be transformed into happiness through courage and awareness that a different choice can be made at any time.


Miracles - Channels of Spirit3) “Intuition is an inner knowing available to us when all of the senses, known and unknown are balanced and able to receive information that is usually filtered out by the conscious mind.”

~ from Learning in the New Paradigm by Rheanni Lightwater

The Cornerstones of Manifest Happiness Circles in the New Paradigm are:

  • Creating prosperity through sustainable cooperation and respectful relationships.
  • Operating out of inner guidance from the Soul rather than the ego.
  • Developing courage and resolve to find peaceful solutions to our current dilemmas.
  • Balancing masculine and feminine energies to create wholeness.
  • Cultivating personal responsibility by understanding “what I put out is what comes back to me” (the Law of Karma).
  • Seeking out healthy nourishment and balance for the body, mind and spirit.
  • Realizing joyful living through reciprocity, self-care and self-love.
  • Actualizing freedom from societal and familial baggage.

The Problem

Getting to the Bottom of your Prosperity Issues.

An example from our recent past will help to paint a picture of what happens when one has lost touch with one of our cornerstones – their prosperity. Let’s say you are living in Pittsburgh in the 50’s and 60’s. You’ve grown up in an environment that is predominately steel mills and manufacturing. The businesses, buildings and social structures have been conceived and built to fulfill the purpose of producing economic dependence upon the steel industry. You are a steel mill worker. Very likely your family has worked in the mills for generations. Every activity, thought and inner motivation has been built upon that experience. Your politics and the conversations you have revolve around it. Your economic security depends upon it. An electro-magnetic energy field has been erected by the collective energy of the residents of Pittsburgh. In response, your personal energy structure has adapted to and perpetuates that input. Now you are in the 70’s and 80’s and the bottom falls out of the steel industry. What do you do? Your own personal energy structure is still operating under “I am a steel mill worker,” but there is no longer any support for that identity.

The Four Stages of Societal Change

1.) Your initial reaction is shock and fear. It’s like the whole world is crumbling down around you.

2.) The next stage is denial. “This is not really happening, maybe if I go down the street and apply at the other mills, I’ll get a job there.”

3.) Once it really sinks in that there are no more jobs in town, disillusionment and depression set in.

4.) If little or nothing is done to alleviate the situation, violence and desperation break out, creating a gridlock to positive change.

Many people are now experiencing one of these four stages due to political, societal and environmental changes taking place in our world today. The solution is to open yourself up to changing who you think you are and building a new identity and personal energy structure that supports who you want to be now.

The Solution

This is where the Manifest Happiness Power Circles come in. The classes and Transformation Games are designed to help you transmute, transform and transcend your experience of lack and limitation into an opening to re-invent yourself through the inner guidance of your Soul.

If you want to be prosperous in the truest sense, you will want to examine who you think you are and clear out any thoughts, emotions or assumptions that prevent you from moving forward into the person you’d like to become. It’s also a good idea to modify attitudes and perceptions that keep you chained to the past, struggling to cope with all the changes going on around you.

To find out how the Manifest Happiness Circles can assist you, attend an Intro. Check our Intuition Training schedule

Breaking Through Blockages to Happiness

This Mind Exercise is about how to use your intuition to help you uncover and resolve your blockages to happiness in the New Paradigm.

New Paradigm

Let’s start with a couple of quick explanations of intuition, happiness and unhappiness that we’re going to use as underlying principles to this process ~

1) “Intuition is an inner knowing available to us when all of the senses, known and unknown are balanced and able to receive information that is usually filtered out by the conscious mind.”

~ Learning in the New Paradigm by Rheanni Lightwater

2) Happiness is a heart centered state of being where a person is internally creating their experience and more likely to attract their needs in an open, natural way. As they experience happiness, they are living the concept that “what you put out comes back to you.” They take responsibility for their choices and know that their mindset is important in maintaining their happiness. They also know that how their energy is flowing and what actions they take are key components to success.

Blockages to Happiness3) Unhappiness is a state of being where a person is focused on external conditions and the delusion of powerlessness. They look for answers outside of themselves. It’s important to note that unhappiness can be transmuted into happiness through courage and awareness that different choices can be made at any time.

~ Manifest Happiness Circles by Rheanni Lightwater


Breaking Through Your Blockages to Happiness

To understand what your blockages to happiness are in your current circumstances, let’s go through this simple series of Intuitive Learning Circles™. They’ve been put together to help you relax and contemplate the nature of what’s interfering with your energy flow and ability to manifest happiness.

But first, something to remember about working with the Circles… 

Mind Body Integration

Mind Body IntegrationThe brain and body communicate through different channels when a part of you is crossed over the center of your body. If you feel resistant or stuck, cross or uncross a hand or foot over the midline of your body and go back to gazing softly at the Circle, breathing patiently. See if your thinking starts to move again. Let negative self-talk go by breathing through it. This action alone could release blockages to happiness.


Awareness of Your Blockages to Happiness

Simply read the instructions and then follow through on the directions while you gaze softly at the Circle.

Step One: Start at the beginning. Many of the things we’ve learned about happiness began when we were very young and impressionable. Some of those ideas could still be operating on us at a very basic level. What decisions or agreements did you buy into then that you need to let go of now?

Let Raccoon Medicine from Gifts from the Rainforest help you clear the slate of decisions, assumptions, agreements or soul contracts that are based on false information or that no longer serve you.

“I let go of assumptions that I know what’s going on, what happiness is or how to create it.”

“I make room for new decisions that will help me be happier.”

 

Step Two: Slow down. Stop being in such a hurry. Gaze at the Circle with soft eyes and take a few breaths while you contemplate the question. Be patient and wait for an overall intention or priority to emerge. Let it develop naturally. Ask yourself:

“What would be genuinely joyful for me to manifest at this stage of my life?”

Tip: It will help to imagine you can bring all the energy into focus on the center, open space of each Intuitive Learning Circle™.

 

Step Three: Gather up your senses and let them get balanced. Some may be turned up too high and some too low.

You can adjust them like a radio dial until it feels just right.

You might get a visual that symbolizes your new priority. If so, make a note of it. If nothing comes, you might need to clear a bit of shock or confusion.

 

Step Four: Intuition is an internal thing. Focus in on your heart center and let the energy get balanced and open there.

Let the energy radiate out, like a light.

Are there any other chakras that need help in this situation?

Grail Reiki Healing - Divine Mind Chakra

 

Step Five: In this quieter place, ask a simple question: “What area of my life is experiencing a blockage?”  Listen for the answer.

If you want more information, ask for a number between 1 and 49 from Gifts from the Rainforest to access intuition and help you get more clarity about what’s going on.

 

It’s helpful to know what is going on within your subtle energy field that’s contributing to the blockage and clear it. What’s going on with your Soul Energy? Ask for a number between 1 – 24 in Soul Prayer Charts.

 

Is there a reversal of energy going on that’s causing the blockage?

Is there a collapse that needs to be addressed?

Once you have taken these steps to clarify the situation, congratulations! You are now more aware and have begun the process of breaking through blockages to happiness! You might want to make a note of what you came up with. The critical mind often doesn’t like to remember the quieter, gentler voice of intuition.

Extra-intuitive Activities

The following extra-intuitive activities aren’t required, but they can make a huge difference in how successful your efforts will be in creating true happiness for yourself…

Future Pacing

In our hypnotherapy and energy medicine classes, we talk about the importance of future pacing. What is that?

Future pacing is a way to deepen the effects of any mind body healing by projecting a preferred outcome into the future. Let’s use that idea to solidify what you’ve just learned about your current blockages to happiness.

Intuition out of balanceRemember that when intuition is out of balance, it tries to define “perfection” in extremes, which gives rise to fantasy, hallucination and wishful thinking. 

Let’s head that kind of intuition off at the pass right now!

Energetic Flow of Happiness

Use this Circle to choose symbols and positive affirmations from The Essential Human that will filter out negativity and access the very best qualities to nurture your creative flow. Start by bringing all the energy in towards the center open space, relax for a few moments, then ask yourself:

“What number between 1 and 42 comes to mind when I think about creating my future happiness?”

Go to that number in The Essential Human and gently meditate on the symbol to gather up unconscious information. Use the affirmation:

“I decide to choose happiness over unhappiness.”

Once you’ve done that, go back to the Circle above and check to see if there are additional male and/or female archetypes of The Essential Human that need a correction. 

To complete the process, confirm that you’ve completed the process of future pacing with this statement:

“In this area of my life, all aspects of my Essence create happiness as a manifestation of Love.”

 

INTEGRATION

Imagine that you can access your beneficial karma for being happy.  Gather all your good deeds in the center, blank area of this Circle.

“I access my beneficial karma for actualizing happiness.”

Completion

The mind intuitively appreciates closure. Let’s get grounded as we complete this mind exercise.

Place both feet on the floor and put your hands on your knees if you can. Gaze softly at the Circle and repeat the affirmation until you feel your body has fully settled in the present.

“I am grounded and happy.”

Congratulations!

You can thank yourself for taking the time today to break through your blockages to happiness – a gift that will make your life a whole lot better!

Bring all the energy in towards the center.

Closure for Mind Body HealingFinish it all up now by sealing and healing any pathways or holes that lead back to old, harmful patterns or suffering.

“All holes are sealed and healed.”

“I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

Be sure to rest now and do something nice for yourself!

Find out about Intuition Training for Personal Growth with Soul Resources LLC!


For More Help Navigating the Flow – Check Out Todays Intuitive Reading >

 


Rheanni Lightwater - How to Be More Intuitive

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in learning difficulties and mind body healing  using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Email your request to: soulresources@gmail.com or text her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday.


Disclaimer:
This Mind Exercise should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment for any ailment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Retrain Your Mind To Go For Joy

When you retrain your mind to go for “joy” rather than “perfection,” amazing things start to happen…

Retrain Your Mind to Go For Joy

Why does joy allude us? Because the mind is busy going for other things. Like being “right”, “desirable” or “perfect.”

For a lot of us, a tremendous amount of our learning power has been focused on fulfilling deadlines, trying to look good, preventing mistakes, avoiding getting caught, making fantasies happen and being “right.” Most of us are taught that we’re supposed to be perfect, so that’s what we’ve trained the mind to go for.

Retrain Your Mind - Let Go of "Being Perfect"But what does “perfection” mean? Whose definition of being perfect are we using? Our parents? Mom? Dad? Our boss? Our family? Religion? The media? All of these definitions are externally sourced and full of contradictions.

More often than not, “perfection” simply means doing what somebody else wants us to do. No wonder so many of us are spinning around, chasing after a hundred different things! Going for perfection usually creates pressure, confusion and an overwhelmed mind!

On the other hand, going for joy usually creates more joy – which would be much better. However, in some situations, it might be even more effective to go for “freedom”, “balance” or “sustainable prosperity.”

If you would like to experiment with this idea, you can go through Retrain Your Mind to Go for Joy and see what happens to your mood and point of view!


Welcome to Learning in the New Paradigm – Mind Exercises to Retrain Your Mind to Go for Joy Rather than “Perfection.”

~ with Rheanni Lightwater, CHT, CKP

Rheanni Lightwater - Retrain Your MindThe Intuitive Learning Circles™ are a great tool to help you retrain your mind to successfully move away from the internal conflict that comes from having to be perfect. This short exercise will get you started. I’ve put it together to help you discover a way to refocus on internally sourced goals that are joyful and genuinely meaningful for you! All you have to do is relax and gaze softly at the Circles while you gently contemplate the affirmations or questions that go with them. Examples:

“I reclaim and balance my five senses.”

“I fine tune them to be present and aware of my Souls purpose.”

“I use them to become aware of interference, obstacles and self sabotage.”

“I gain clear awareness of beneficial opportunities, solutions and ________.”

An important note  about Mind Body Integration ~ 

Retrain Your Mind for Mind Body IntegrationThe brain and body communicate through different channels when a part of you is crossed over the center of your body. As you go through the steps, cross and uncross a hand or foot over the midline of your body when you gaze at each Circle. Use a soft focus and breathe patiently. This will help you integrate your thinking more fully so that you can be more creative. Let any negative self-talk go by breathing through it.

Feel free to move at anytime in any way to help you embody your experience!


Okay, so let’s begin to retrain your mind…

Step One: In your current situation, who or what is defining “perfection” for you?

Perhaps it’s the media or something you learned at home or in school.

Wherever it came from, does that definition create joy for you? Is it creating more balance or freedom?

So, what are you actually asking your mind to accomplish?

 

Step Two: How much of your energy have you been sending to this definition?

If it were a percentage, what might it be?

10%? 20%? 50% or more?

Would you like to send that energy to create more joy in this situation instead?

 

Step Three: Imagine you can retrain your mind to reorganize itself around “joy,” rather than “perfection”.

Place the word “Joy,” “Balance” or “Freedom” in the center, open space of the Circle and soften your gaze. Relax. While you’re doing this, the Circle may seem to rotate, spin or even change colors. If that happens – go with it. Release control of the experience and let your energy re-arrange itself. Your new goal may turn into images, experiences, colors, sounds or movements. Let it happen! You will know that the process is complete when the energy subsides.

You can get up and move around if you like. Take all the time that you need.

 

Step Four: Think about your situation again. What do you really want to accomplish?

 

Step Five: Take a moment and focus inwardly on what’s most important for you.

Chakra Healing - Third Eye Chakra

Remember to keep breathing!

 

Step Six: Clear the energy in your Root Chakra so you can connect with the concept of your goal and bring it into physical manifestation.

 

Step Seven: How might you approach your situation differently now? What action can you take that will help you know you’re going for joy?

How is it different when you go for balance or freedom? What about sustainable prosperity?

 

Step Eight: Now that you’ve refocused your thoughts and energy on joy, take a break. Give your mind less to have to think about.

“I close the door on all that confusion. I give my mind a rest.”

Closure for Mind Body Healing

Congratulations! Going for joy rather than perfection is a central concept of the  Intuitive Learning Circles™ that will help you to live and prosper in the New Paradigm of co-operation and sustainable prosperity.

Thank you for playing Retrain Your Mind to Go for Joy. Now is a good time to go for a walk and relax!

Return to Todays Intuitive Reading>

Find out about Intuition Training for Personal Growth with us!

 


Rheanni Lightwater - Retraining the MindRheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in learning difficulties and mind body healing  using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Email your request to: soulresources@gmail.com or text her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday.


Disclaimer:
This Mind Exercise should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.