Staying Empowered Even When Things are Falling Apart

A Transformation Game To Help With Staying Empowered

Transformation Game - Staying EmpoweredDuring difficult times staying empowered is essential to long term success. Social paradigms and relationships from the past are in various stages of falling apart and it’s important that you don’t fall apart along with them. You can recenter yourself and refocus your energy by going through this I Ching Reading* and Transformation Game from Kuan Yin.
To help you better connect with her assistance, she uses the Intuitive Learning Circles ™ to communicate with you through meditation, affirmations and visualization. Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating Kuan Yins words. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek.

Mind Body IntegrationMind Body Integration

For best results playing a Transformation Game, look at each Circle both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

 

 


Welcome to the I Ching Reading and Transformation Game for The TOWER and Hexagram #23 – Deterioration

Transformation Game: Staying Empowered

Staying Empowered

“If you’re experiencing a situation where there’s a great deal of societal discord, incompetence, arguments or break ups, power grabs or illness due to being in a toxic environment – the situation is definitely in the flow of the I Ching Hexagram #23 – DETERIORATION.

Be cautious in how you spend your energy and conservative about any investment of time or money. Reckless expenditures, whether they be financial, emotional or spiritual, are much more likely to result in loss at this time. 

The best thing to do when dealing with deteriorating situations is to step back and get perspective. Take care of yourself very sensibly and examine your reactions carefully. Be generous and kind to those you care about.

Meditate, gather yourself, remember that confusion is the ideal atmosphere for tricksters, abusers and despots. Remind yourself that all things must end. There will come a change for the better. 

If you deal with DETERIORATION with an attitude of revenge or resentment, you will deplete yourself by giving the situation more fuel, which is probably exactly the reaction your opponent wants. Your good intentions are better served by keeping yourself centered and grounded. 

Here is some help through a Transformation Game called Staying Empowered.”

Gently gaze at the Intuitive Learning Circles™ one at a time and consider the question or affirmation that goes with each Step. This self-care process helps you to become aware of what’s bothering you, so that you can make a different choice about how to use your energy more productively and in tune with your Inner Guidance.

 Step 1:

What is a situation around you now that is in the flow of DETERIORATION? Trust the message that comes through from your deepest, wisest guidance.

Step 2:

What truth are you having trouble communicating in this situation?

Step 3:

What is the feeling that tends to pull you into that situation?

Once you’ve identified what you’re feeling, take a moment and relax into it.

“I accept that this feeling is present and that eventually it will change. All things change eventually.”

The more you relax and accept, the faster and easier it will be for you to make corrections on the deeper levels you’re looking for.

Step 4:

The next few symbols are from “Divine Nature Activated” and will help you release negative conditioning and heal your DNA. The key is to relax as much as possible while looking at each symbol. It can help to imagine that an old, broken DNA strand is falling apart while a vibrant and cohesive DNA strand is relaxing, healing and filling up with light.

When using these symbols, it’s important to relax and breathe as you use each affirmation:

“I let go of seeing myself as weak or powerless. I reclaim and maintain my connection to the Divine.”

 

 “I let go of rigid ideas that have changed or proven to be false. I don’t have to be right.” 

“I now focus on a solution that is truthful and serves my highest good.”

“I let go of societal patterns of fear, violence and corruption. I hold the victory of love in mind.”

DNA - Guidance from Angelic Realms

“I see myself outside of the pattern of intolerance. I acknowledge and respect my fellow brothers and sisters.”

“I ask the Divine to lead me to common ground.”

 

Step 5:

Now that you’ve cleared that energy, ask your inner guidance:

“Are there any aspects of me that have become scattered or disempowered?”

If there are, call them back now.

 

Step 6:

It’s time to get more present and heart centered: 

“I am fully present inside my body.”

“The light in my heart center is strong and radiating out into the world.”

If you’re having trouble, it can help to take several deep breaths. Inhale on the count of 4. Exhale on the count of six. Open and close your fingers. If you are feeling a strong emotion come up, go back to Step #4 and repeat the process of relaxing and dissipating the negative DNA patterns.

 

Step 7:

Now that you are fully present, ask your deepest wisest guidance:

“What is an action I can take that will help me with staying empowered?”

Take as much time as you need to reorganize your thoughts and energy around positive action.

 

 Step 8:

Staying empowered is much easier when you don’t let things stick to you. Consciously let go of any conflicts and peel off any sticky energy that comes from your deteriorating situation.

“This doesn’t belong to me. It’s theirs to deal with. I send it back.”

Step 9:

Dissolve destructive blueprints using these affirmations:

“I allow my mind to let go of any fears about the past or the future that I’m still holding onto. I see those patterns like dark clouds dissolving into a clear, blue sky.”

“I dissolve negative templates, attitudes and behaviors that cause me harm.”

 

Step 10. AurasThis is the final step to your game, but it’s very important!

You will want to keep your auras close to your body whenever you want to stay empowered. That’s because your auras provide protection. When they’re strong and focused, they can repel toxicity and keep your energy from mixing up with other people.

So, to finish this game, gaze softly at this Circle for as long as you need to repair and refocus them. Use this affirmation if you like:

“My auras are very strong and focused. I naturally keep them close to my body.”

 

Congratulations!

Staying empowered is essential in times of DETERIORATION. Remember the transformation isn’t complete until you’ve taken the action you were guided to take in Step #7. If you like, you may go through this healing meditation again around other issues that are falling apart.  Be sure to rest though and take good care of yourself!


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Rheanni Lightwater - Learning from Danger

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule.


Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment for any ailment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Year of the Earth Pig

Transforming Your Life in 2019: The Year of the Earth Pig ~

Transformation Games can help you to identify problems, navigate change and clarify what’s really important to you.  Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating the accompanying positive affirmations. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek…


Welcome to the I Ching Reading and Transformation Game for:

The Year of the Earth Pig or Boar

This year, the Chinese Horoscope animal is the Earth Pig or Boar, starting on February 5th, 2019 and ending on to January 24th, 2020. Recent Years ruled by the Pig are 1947, 1959, 1971, 1983, 1995 and 2007.

Traditionally, the positive qualities of an Earth Pig year are abundance in love, luck, health and money. However, your appetites for objects, food and possessions could get out of hand. It’s good to remember those old social memes, “more is not necessarily better” and “be careful what you ask for” because you could very easily get overwhelmed and out of balance!

To help you, this Transformation Game has been put together to increase your self-awareness, get clear about your priorities and make healthy choices so that you can stay in balance and not go “hog wild”.

Managing the Flow of Opportunities in the Year of the Pig

As you gaze at this Circle that accesses the medicine of the Earth Pig, see if you currently need some increased self-awareness around an important aspect of your life. Ask yourself:

“Would it benefit me to get inner guidance around career, money, health, home or dwelling, business opportunity or a love relationship?”

Make sure that you’re aware of the current flow of the Tao – or “gateway through which all things move.” Use some positive affirmations to help you get there:

“I choose to notice the flow of the Tao.”

“I have correct awareness of the prevailing energy in my environment.”


Mind Body Integration

Mind Body IntegrationFor best results, be sure you look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that you gather up all the unconscious information about your situation.

 


Open Your Heart So That You Can Be Inspired ~

Use this Reiki Chakra Key to balance and open your Heart Center. 

“My heart is open to the flow of joy and balanced prosperity in this situation.”

“I am centered and radiating ___________.”

“My heart is aligned with my highest good.”

Because of the chaos involved, it’s very easy to get off track and go “hog wild.” You’re going to need true loyalty to your Self and your highest good to make wise choices. Gently look at the next Circle to affirm your best intentions:

“My agreement is to remain loyal to myself and my best interests.”

“I make choices that keep me on a positive path towards my own goals.”

“I let go of _________. I prepare for __________. I take care of __________.”

 

Focus in on the open, blank space in the middle of this Circle. Send your energy to it using these positive affirmations:

“I use my energy wisely.”

“I make a conscious choice to focus my energy on genuinely helpful people, projects and activities.”

 

“I decide to let go of interference and negativity. I send them to the Sun to be transformed.”

“I am filled with light and protection for positive interactions.”

The Essential Human*Note: If you have a copy of The Essential Human, now would be a good time to use it to untangle yourself from negativity.

Once you’ve done that, you’ll probably feel quite a bit calmer and more focused.


If you’re willing, there are several other decisions you could make that could really improve how you handle opportunities. 

Let’s continue with several principles that are bound to be helpful in the Year of the Earth Pig.

Priority #1: Stay focused and calm.

The year will have many opportunities – sometimes too many! Keeping a calm and peaceful mindset will help you filter out clutter and garbage.

“I close the doors to being hard on myself, overworking, conflict, pressure, chaos and____________, etc.”

“I access serenity and peace.”

“I move with grace and tranquility.”

 Priority #2: Keep Your Choices Down to Earth and Do-able.

Be a practical pig, not a porky pig. 

“I let go of fantasies and unrealistic ideas.”

“I focus on what’s really possible for me, in my current situation.”

“Healthy limitations and good boundaries create the best conditions for success.”

“I decide that being calm and stable are healthy qualities to nurture.”

“I perceive my situation as it really is.”

 

Priority #3: Stay Grounded In Your Own Garden.

With the Earth Pig it can be pretty easy to wander off into other people’s gardens looking for yummy morsels. This is a similar tendency to ‘the other man’s grass is always greener.” Don’t buy into it.

“I remain grounded in my own garden and harvest my own blessings.”

Priority #4: Keep Your Space Clear of Garbage and Clutter.

The Pig has a natural tendency to attract too much stuff! Use this Circle to help you clear away any clutter or garbage that’s been dumped in your personal space or the landscape of your mind. You can imagine a broom just sweeping it all away to the Sun!

Once your mind feels clear, ask yourself, “Is there anything I should clear out or clean up in my physical environment?”

Priority #5: Know What’s Best for You.

Slow down and remember what’s most important for you at this time. Having too many intentions is often an unconscious contributor to burnout, failure or getting stuck in the mud. Stop and make a choice about what’s most important for you right now.

“Do I have some intentions that conflict with each other? If so, can I tell what they are?”

“Am I in the correct position for success?”

 

Now it’s time to dissolve mental and emotional patterns that pull you out of balance. Use this symbol for dissolving destructive blueprints to identify and let go of any societal or familial patterns that are affecting you in a negative way. See them disappear as you send them to the Sun:

“I dissolve the destructive energy of – extravagance, indulgence, greed, laziness, apathy, indifference or ____________, etc. ”

 

Once the patterns are cleared, close the door to pathways that lead to trouble.

“All harmful pathways are sealed and healed.

I decide to get grounded and follow the path that’s most beneficial to me.”

For most of us, the Year of the Earth Pig will be an opportunity to go within and expel deep patterns of extravagance or apathy so that we can evolve to create more sustainable systems for health, relationships and prosperity. 

You can use this opportunity to plant beneficial karmic seeds for those new systems and any other useful resources that you may need in the near or distant future.

Congratulations!

Once you begin to take responsibility for your appetites, you can bring order and new happiness into your environment!


Rheanni Lightwater - Finding Moderation in the New Paradigm

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule a session with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule or Email: soulresources@gmail.com


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Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Do the Right Thing – Conflict Resolution

How To Do the Right Thing in Relationships

Do you ever have the feeling that you’re about to say or do something that you’ll regret? If you could do the right thing, what would it be?

Do the Right ThingIn any kind of close relationship, there’s often a false perception that the other person somehow understands what our motivations are – that they know what we really mean, even if we’re angry. Perhaps because we feel so close to them, we make a lot of assumptions. That can be a very dangerous game!

 

Help Me Do The Right Thing!

Note: This exercise is associated with the I Ching Hexagrams #6 CONFLICT and #43 RESOLUTION:

You can help yourself find emotional healing by taking this quick relationship quiz. The person you’re struggling with may not know how to interact with you because of mixed messages or unresolved issues from your past. By taking the time to go within and find out what part you’re playing in the game, you can understand what’s motivating you so you can do the right thing to resolve the situation. Remember, actions speak louder than words!

The way to play this game is to relax and breathe deeply while you meditate on the questions and suggestions that accompany the Circles. This first one will help you to slow down and let yourself focus on one thing at a time.

“I slow down and relax.”

 

Once you’re relaxed, go through the rest of the quiz in the same way – asking yourself the questions while you gaze softly at the accompanying Circle. Take your time, the answers might not come right away. The Circles are helping your mind to clear away mental and emotional clutter.

“What do I want to do?” 

“Have I decided for some reason that it’s not possible? Is that true?”

 

“What things have I been saying to myself or others about this situation? Is that really true? What do I really mean?”

 

“How am I getting thrown off?”

 

“What am I afraid will happen?”

Relax for a few minutes and let the Circle help you calm down.

 

“What do I need to do for this to change for the better?”

 

“Am I willing to do what would be required for this to change in a positive, meaningful way?”

Miracles - Channels of Love

If you are willing, ask for help from your Soul resources or angelic guidance.

If you’re not, this is a good opportunity to explore what’s really motivating you.

 

Imagine that you can release any old agreements, assumptions or grudges that are keeping this CONFLICT going. Visualize them like contracts, burning up into nothingness.

Make a new agreement to take good care of yourself by using your words wisely.

It’s time to bring RESOLUTION to the destructive mental and emotional patterns that feed the CONFLICT. Use this symbol to dissolve destructive blueprints that are causing you harm. Visualize them dissolving like dark clouds into a pure, blue sky.

Next, seal and heal any leaks or attachments that may lead you back into CONFLICT.

“All holes are sealed and healed. I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

 

Finally, make a RESOLUTION to overcome your difficulties by making progress in positive directions. Take your time and gently formulate new ideas and positive affirmations about how you might do the right thing in a way that will really benefit you.

Congratulations!

It isn’t always easy to do the right thing in relationships, yet if you’re willing to make a change for the better – anything is possible!

 

Todays Intuitive Reading


Rheanni LightwaterRelationships In Love is a series of Mind Exercises that have been put together by Rheanni Lightwater, CHT, CKP.

If you would like more help, find out about Rheanni’s Intuitive Readings and Clearings (Long Distance or Visit Santa Fe)

Long distance intuitive readings are available with Rheanni (Ray-ah-nee). Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, Monday through Friday to schedule.

Disclaimer:
This Mind Exercise should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

How To Access Common Sense

This Mind Exercise is about how to access common sense. 

How to Access Common SenseLet’s start with some words about common sense* that I like to remember:

Common Sense is good sense and judgement based on verifiable experience or repeated observation of the facts, not just because someone said so. When someone says, “something is so, because I say it is,” that is not common sense.

When a person’s common sense is out of balance, they’re more interested in looking good than anything else. They have poor boundaries and are more concerned about fitting in than they are with facts. The thought process is externally driven (peer pressure), not internally developed and checked against the facts.

If a person accepts a judgement as truth from a second or third party without any personal verification, it’s actually an assumed agreement or conditioning. Learning without verification can be very dangerous. An example of this would be prejudice against someone you have never met. Someone told you this person, group or activity is untrustworthy. It may be true or it may not. Without verifiable evidence, common sense is lacking.

What can be done about common sense that’s out of balance?

A good place to start is to access your senses. Everyone has a “blind spot.” For some reason, we’ve been conditioned to turn a blind eye to certain things. See if you can remedy some of that by gazing softly at this Reiki Chakra Key, together with these positive affirmations:

“I reclaim and balance my five senses.”

“I use them to be present and make sense of my current conditions and environment.”

“I use them to become aware of helpful resources, solutions and opportunities.”

“I access common sense.”

 

Next, release your agreement with any unverifiable prejudices. These may have been planted deeply in your unconscious mind by your family, religion and society, even your dearest friends. Oh, and most certainly the media!

Use this Intuitive Learning Circle™ to help you find unconscious prejudices in your mind and uproot them:

“I unearth unverified assumptions, prejudices or conditioning that prevent me from having good, common sense.”

“I uproot the resistance to verify what I’ve been conditioned to believe.”

“I uproot the belief that I have to agree with what I’m told in order to fit in.”

What else would you like to uproot?


To teach genuine common sense, a good teacher shows by example or demonstration. True common sense can prevent fascism, slavery, abuse and instills personal integrity, plus things just work better when they make sense.

*from Learning in the New Paradigm by Rheanni Lightwater: Mind Exercises to realign different aspects of your learning abilities to focus on “balance” or  “joy”, rather than “perfection.”


To have your own experience with how to access common sense, let’s go through this simple series of Intuitive Learning Circles™. They’ve been put together to help you relax, contemplate the nature of common sense and integrate the information.

All you have to do is read the instructions and then follow through on the directions while you gaze softly at each Circle.


mind Body IntegrationAn important note ~ 

The brain and body communicate through different channels when a part of you is crossed over the center of your body. If you feel resistant or stuck, cross or uncross a hand or foot over the midline of your body and go back to the Circle, breathing patiently. See if your thinking starts to move again. Let negative self-talk go by breathing through it.


How to Access Common Sense

Common Sense and the Third Eye ChakraStep One: Gaining insight through common sense works with having good intuition. Allow the Reiki Chakra Key below to open and balance your Third Eye energy center. The affirmations will focus your intention. Use this affirmation to help you:

“I access good common sense. I free my mind to focus on what makes the most sense in this situation – based on verifiable evidence.” 

Step Two: Slow down. Both intuition and common sense are more accessible when you’re not in a hurry or trying to do too many things.

“I slow down and pay attention to what’s happening now.”

It will help to imagine you can bring all the energy into focus on the center, open space of each Intuitive Learning Circle™.

Step Three: You might sense a blockage or your mind may go blank. That’s okay. Let this Circle soften your thoughts. Allow them to melt, move and dissolve away.

Once the blockage has cleared a bit, what would you like to do?

Feel free to move around or take a walk to get in some steps. Using the body helps your mind to integrate new ideas!

Step Four: Let your senses get balanced. Some may be turned up too high and some too low. You can imagine them like a ring of lights orbiting around your waist, casting light and awareness on the world around you.

Adjust them like a radio dial until the level feels just right.

Be sure that your lights are focused on sensing joy – not on what someone else wants you to pay attention to!

Step Five: Surround those lights with a ring of protection and strength.

“I am safe and protected. I have the courage to change my perspective.”

Truth Mandala
PLUG INTO TRUTH

Step Six: Resonate with the power of your Soul to separate yourself from lies, confusion and manipulations.

Consciously “unplug” from lies and manipulations at your solar plexus and then plug into truth.

Be sure to do that while looking at this Circle both crossed and uncrossed!

Step Seven: In this quieter, clearer mind space, think of a decision you are unclear about and would like to apply some common sense to – something that isn’t making sense to you right now.

Or you can ask: “What makes sense to do next?” If you are unclear, this would be a perfect situation to experiment with.

Step Eight: Continue your inquiry,  “How can I put it all together so that it makes sense?” Bring your thoughts in toward the center, blank space. This could take some time. Listen for the answer. What is your inner guidance?

Intuition combined with common sense is often simpler and more straightforward than most people are comfortable with. Let go of the three C’s – complication, convolution and conspiracy. Be patient and let your mind sift through the possibilities.

Step Nine: Balance your senses again and ask yourself:

“What makes the most sense?”

Once you get a heartfelt answer, Congratulations! Be sure to write down what you came up with. The critical mind often doesn’t like to remember the quieter, gentler voice of intuition.

Extra-intuitive Activities

The following extra-intuitive activities aren’t required, but they can help you excel in creating the very best of your talents, interests and passions…

Improving Brain Chemistry for Better Common Sense

We are more likely to make good sense of things when our brains have a balanced chemistry. Chakra healing can help. Let’s see what happens when we allow the chakras of important parts of our brains to let go of toxic chemicals that might be impairing our thinking and how we access common sense.

Gaze softly at the Essential Chakra Key with this intention:

“Accurate messages are transferred between my brain and spinal cord.”

Next, gaze at this Chakra Key with the intention:

“My left and right brain communicate accurately with each other.”

Sometimes we have “the sense knocked out of us” physically. Trauma like that can affect all kinds of thought processes.

“My focus, balance and stability are in place.”

Use this Circle to help you appropriately reconnect any chakras that have disconnected due to accident, injury or violence.

“My communication lines are connected.”

“I make sense of things.”

“Reliable communication has resumed throughout my nervous system.”

Some parts of your brain can anticipate pain and overreact with highly charged emotional responses. Allow them to gently release and let go with this intention:

“I am safe and calm. All is well.”


Application

Go back to Step Seven at the beginning of this exercise and review the decision you were considering.

“What makes good sense to do next?”

INTEGRATION

Imagine that you can release any negative karmic patterns you may have around peer pressure or needing to look good. Send any chaos or confusion up to the Sun.

Next, access your beneficial karma for having good common sense. Gather your good deeds in the center, blank area of this Circle.

“I access my beneficial karma for actualizing good and balanced common sense.”

beneficial karma

Completion

The mind intuitively appreciates closure. Let’s get grounded as we complete this mind exercise.

Place both feet on the floor and put your hands on your knees if you can. Gaze softly at the Circle and repeat the affirmation until you feel your body has fully settled in the present.

“I am grounded in the present.”

“I ground common sense in the New Paradigm.”

Ask yourself:

“How does it feel to access good common sense, based on verifiable experience or repeated observation of the facts?”

Congratulations!

You can thank yourself for taking the time today to learn how to access common sense and good judgement – a gift that will make your life a whole lot better!

Bring the energy of gratitude and appreciation in towards you in the center.

Closure for Mind Body HealingFinish it all up now by sealing and healing any pathways or holes that lead back to old harmful patterns or suffering.

“All holes are sealed and healed.”

“I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

Be sure to rest now and do something nice for yourself!

Find out about Intuition Training for Personal Growth with us!

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Rheanni Lightwater

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in learning difficulties and mind body healing  using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Email your request to: soulresources@gmail.com or text her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday.


Disclaimer:
This mind exercise should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment for any ailment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Feng Shui for Your Home

How to Use Feng Shui For Your Home with the I Ching to Assess Your Continuing Happiness in 2019 ~

Feng shui for your home is very useful anytime you’re going through significant changes. That includes changes of the season and the summer solstice!

In fact, in order to avoid STAGNATION, there’s an old feng shui recommendation that twelve objects be moved or rearranged in some way at the change of every season or during other times of significant change. 

Feng Shui for Your Home

The I Ching or Book of Change works beautifully with Feng Shui because it follows and predicts movements and tendencies in the cosmos using a series of sixty-four hexagrams or energy flows. When feng shui for your home can go with the flow of life, stagnation and other energy problems can be avoided, which helps everything work better!

For example, if your home or life is in a general state of disrepair, feng shui can help you remove disturbing influences so that your environment can support you better as it suggests in this Hexagram:

“The situation will develop new energy and inspiration once the problems are removed.” Hexagram #18 REPAIR

The process of clearing and setting up the energy of your home can also help you to optimize your chances for success in all areas of your life by storing reservoirs of positive energy:

“…you have built up a strong reserve of potential energy. Good fortune.” Hexagram #26 POTENTIAL ENERGY

However, some people don’t know that feng shui can also help you to correct instability and “take apart” destructive patterns that are causing you and your family harm. Those patterns may have been a part of the family dynamic for a very long time. 

“Order can be brought to chaotic situations, Because you are now unusually familiar with the elements involved in the object of your inquiry, you can evaluate and arrange them in whatever way necessary to achieve your aim.” ~ Hexagram #64 BEFORE THE END

Once the imbalances are corrected in your environment, personal growth happens more easily and effectively. Good health is supported. Your sense of timing improves, chaos is reduced and changes in life direction are more easily achieved. A private consultation is often the best, however, there are some things that you can do on your own. To help you, Kuan Yin has inspired this short Transformation Game…


Feng Shui for Your Home:

Going through this process can help you evaluate whether or not your home is providing a stable and healthy environment for you. Plus, you could get some inspiration or possible remedies to support your happiness.

Simply gaze softly at the symbols while you consider the questions that accompany each of them. Doing so will help you to uncover hidden information about how your prosperity or sense of “home” is being impaired (it will also work in your office).

Step One – Relax and Tune In:

Begin by getting in the correct mindset to receive intuitive information. Gaze softly at this symbol while you repeat the following affirmation for a minute or two:

“I ask my intuition to reveal hidden information about imbalances or interferences in my home that are causing me, my business or my family harm.”

They say that intuition is easier when all of the senses are balanced. So relax with this next Circle and adjust the volume on your senses – some may be turned up too high and some too low. You can bring them into balance by adjusting the levels.

Step Two – Review the Intention for Your Home:

“The opportunity to change a situation from STAGNATION to progress is at hand. It will not happen of its own accord. A strong and continuing sense of purpose is necessary to achieve and maintain the greatest possible heights of success.” ~ Hexagram #12 STAGNATION

[You might want to get a notepad to write on and see if you can find at least twelve objects that you can move, rearrange or remove as you go through the rest of this game.]

Use this Circle to slow down some more and become aware of your actual, physical, home environment. On your pad of paper, see if you can formulate a clear intention for what you would like your home to do for you at this time in your life. 

Now, briefly review each room and remind yourself about what’s really important about the function of each room. What happens there and what purpose does that room serve for you and/or the family? You might also want to think about how a change in the season might affect each room.

If your mind goes blank, or you’re having trouble accessing clear intuition, use this Circle to melt away any disharmony or resistance. It can help to imagine the room softening and moving around. Wait until your vision stabilizes.

Step Three – Get Specific:

Once you’ve briefly gone through each room and feel ready, use the wisdom from this I Ching Hexagram to move on to the questions below that will help you identify more specifics:

“Order can be brought to chaotic situations, Because you are now unusually familiar with the elements involved in the object of your inquiry, you can evaluate and arrange them in whatever way necessary to achieve your aim.” ~ Hexagram #64 BEFORE THE END

Question #1 Trust your initial response to the questions ~

“Are there pockets of negativity or STAGNATION collecting in my home?”

“If so, can I identify where they are located? Do I know what needs to be done to remedy them?”

If no, continue to Question #2.

Question #2

“Am I experiencing poor communication or lack of co-operation where I live?”

“If so, can I identify the source of where it’s coming from? Can I get an idea of what changes are needed?”

 Question #3

“Are there any objects or elements out of balance that are causing mental, emotional, financial or physical difficulties?”

“If so, can I identify how they can be brought into balance?”

“Does something need to be moved, reorganized or completely removed?”

Question #4

“Could I benefit from being more grounded and present in my own home?”

“If so, can I identify the source of what the problem is?”

“Does something need to be moved, reorganized or completely removed to help me be more grounded?”

Question #5

“Is there any interference with productivity?”

“If so, can I identify something that needs to be moved, reorganized or completely removed in order to help me be more productive?”

Question #6

“Is my health or prosperity struggling because of disharmony in my  environment?”

Does something need to be moved, reorganized or completely removed to restore harmony?”

Question #7

“Is there anything I need to know about my environment that is preventing me from heading in the right direction to accomplish my goals? Can I get a sense of what that is?”

“Is there anything I can add to enhance the love and light available in my home?”

“A change is occurring, whether in your own objectives or in the situation around you… By adapting to the realities around you at this time, you will find peace of mind and success.” ~ Hexagram #17 REPAIR

Question #8

“Is my environment safe and does it have adequate protection? Is there anything I need to do to be certain that it’s free from harmful or interfering energies?”

Question #9

You can use this Circle to review the feng shui for your home to see if you have come up with at least twelve items that can be moved, removed, or added to accommodate the changes that you are currently experiencing.

Congratulations! You now have a lot more information about how feng shui for your home or office can be helpful in achieving your goals.


Rheanni LightwaterReiki Master, Hypnotherapist and Medical Intuitive, Rheanni Lightwater specializes in space clearing and Feng Shui in Santa Fe NM and also serves the Albuquerque, Rio Rancho and surrounding New Mexico area. She also creates colorful Feng Shui Healing Art to enhance the chi and empower your intentions.


An appointment with Rheanni lasts between one and three hours, depending upon the property and the circumstances surrounding it. A complimentary initial telephone consultation is available.

Call to make your appointment today:

  • Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKP
  • business (505) 271-4612
  • Soul Resources, LLC – Santa Fe, New Mexico
  • Email: soulresources@gmail.com

Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Office Feng Shui

How to Achieve Your Goals for Business Using Office Feng Shui ~

As your business changes and grows, it’s important to keep some fundamental principles about office Feng Shui in mind so that your goals for success are properly supported.

Rheanni LightwaterIn this article I’m going to share several basic issues and remedies I often use when working with clients who want to know how to set up their office or studio space for success. Then, just for some added fun and insight, we’ll also use some Intuitive Learning Circles™ to help you zero in on what your intuition says about the space you work in!


Principle #1: Productivity

A smart business owner or professional pays close attention to their office or workplace environment and uses proper input to increase productivity.

What are some of the things to think about? What would a Feng Shui expert ask you? Certainly, a reliable practitioner would want to find out if something about your office is keeping you from doing your best. It’s easy to get distracted by non-essential details. You can clarify that for yourself a bit by using the Mind Exercise below.

Take a break from your busy day, slow down and see your business environment as it is right now.

This Intuitive Learning Circle™ from Gifts from the Rainforest will help you slow down, tune into your intuitive senses and clarify what’s going on. Simply gaze softly at the Circle for a few moments with a soft gaze. Relax and allow your mind to to get still.

Use these positive affirmations while you take a few breaths:

“I slow down. I choose to be calm and centered.”

It often helps to imagine that everything is moving in slow motion. Once your mind has stopped chattering, you’ll be able to focus on your business priorities with greater accuracy.

“I know what my primary business goals are.”

 

Now, turn your attention to your actual, physical working environment as it is right now:

What is your overall impression?

Do you feel productive there? Do you feel comfortable?

Does anything distract you?

If so, make a note of whatever distracts you and we’ll come back to it later.

 

 

Principle #2 Grounding

A smart business owner makes sure that they feel grounded in their working environment.

If the space is not grounded, your success is being severely compromised. It’s wise to rectify this situation as soon as possible.

Here is another Intuitive Learning Circle™ that’s about being grounded. Use it in the same way you used the previous Circle, except this time, make sure both feet are on the ground. Remember to relax and gaze at the Circle with a soft focus!

“I am well grounded in the intentions I have for my business.”

Grounding

Now, ask yourself another set of questions: “Is this room grounded? Am I able to think clearly in my environment?

Do I easily get overwhelmed?”

If you’re having a problem here, it’s a really good idea to get the room grounded. You can either get professional help or you could try standing or sitting in the middle of the space and use this affirmation while you gaze quietly at the Circle above. “I am grounded in this space.”

I also use obsidian to keep spaces grounded here in the Southwest area of the United States. Find a good size rock and place it somewhere unobtrusive as close to the center of the room as is practical.

Obsidian
Image compliments of Geology.com

You may have you own favorite techniques for getting grounded. Go ahead and try them. You can confirm whether it’s worked or not by looking at the Grounding Circle above again and asking, “Is the space grounded now?”

If not, keep trying other techniques until the answer comes back positive. If you are having trouble getting grounded yourself, you can try one of my favorite Mind Exercises from SOS – Soul Oriented Solutions

Principle #3: Support

A smart business owner makes sure that their environment supports their intention.

If you own a restaurant, you’ll want it to have an atmosphere that suits the style of eating establishment you have in mind. The needs of a fast food deli, for instance, would be quite different from a place intended for fine dining. The same goes for every kind of business – if the atmosphere doesn’t “feel” right, it’s success will be compromised. That’s one reason why it’s usually a very good idea to keep your home office out of your bedroom. Usually sleeping well and business productivity don’t mix very well.

Sometimes it’s hard to know whether you’re on track, so here is another Intuitive Learning Circle™ to help you tune into the overall “feel” of your working environment.

As you look at this Circle, imagine your space again in your mind’s eye, then ask yourself these questions: 

“Am I feeling nurtured here? Do I feel stressed here? If so, when?”

“What is distracting me from productive activities that are in the best interest of my business success?”

Remember if there’s anything about your office feng shui that’s distracting you. Use this Feng Shui Mandala for Receptivity to relax and help you formulate the changes that would help you. Ask yourself: 

“What needs to change?”

Consider moving, clearing or re-organizing whatever is distracting you.

If you’re not feeling supported in your workplace, there could be many reasons. Again, calling in a professional is probably a good idea, however, if you enjoyed playing Office Feng Shui, you could find some remedies at our online store, Feng Shui Healing Arts.


Rheanni Lightwater is a Reiki Master, Hypnotherapist and Medical Intuitive specializing in space clearing and Feng Shui in Santa Fe NM and also serves the Albuquerque, Rio Rancho and surrounding New Mexico area.

Rheanni LightwaterMake your appointment today:

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKP

business (505) 271-4612
Soul Resources, LLC – Santa Fe, New Mexico

soulresources@gmail.com

What can an Intuitive Feng Shui Consultation do for you?

• Set up an overall atmosphere that is welcoming, warm and comfortable.

• Establish clear goals and positive input to enhance all major aspects of your life or bagua: career, self-cultivation, health, family, wealth and prosperity, reputation, love and marriage, creativity, children, helpful people and travel.

• Bring a more harmonious flow into your environment so that you can more easily achieve your goals.

• Provide tips and assistance in making significant life changes such as: getting married, having children and new career directions.


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Retrain Your Mind To Go For Joy

When you retrain your mind to go for “joy” rather than “perfection,” amazing things start to happen…

Retrain Your Mind to Go For Joy

Why does joy allude us? Because the mind is busy going for other things. Like being “right”, “desirable” or “perfect”.

A tremendous amount of our learning power is focused on fulfilling deadlines, trying to look good, prevent mistakes, avoid getting caught, make fantasies happen and be “right”.

Most of us are taught that we’re supposed to be perfect, so that’s what we’ve trained the mind to go for.

Retrain Your Mind - Let Go of "Being Perfect"But what does “perfection” mean? Whose definition of being perfect are we using? Our parents? Mom? Dad? Our boss? Our family? Religion? The media? All of these definitions are externally sourced and full of contradictions.

More often than not, “perfection” simply means doing what somebody else wants us to do. No wonder so many of us are overwhelmed, confused and unhappy!

In most cases, going for joy creates more joy – which would be much better. However, in some situations, it might be even more effective to go for “freedom”, “balance” or “sustainable prosperity.”

If you would like to experiment with this idea, you can go through the following game and see what happens to your mood and point of view!


Welcome to Learning in the New Paradigm – Mind Exercises to Retrain Your Mind to Go for Joy Rather than “Perfection.”

~ with Rheanni Lightwater, CHT, CKP

Rheanni Lightwater - Retrain Your MindThe Intuitive Learning Circles™ are a great tool to help you retrain your mind to successfully move away from the internal conflict that comes from having to be perfect. This short exercise will get you started. I’ve put it together to help you discover a way to refocus on internally sourced goals that are joyful and genuinely meaningful for you! All you have to do is gaze softly at the Circles while you contemplate the affirmations or questions that go with them. Examples:

“I reclaim and balance my five senses.”

“I fine tune them to be present and aware of my Souls purpose.”

“I use them to become aware of interference, obstacles and self sabotage.”

“I gain clear awareness of beneficial opportunities, solutions and resources.”

An important note  about Mind Body Integration ~ 

Retrain Your Mind for Mind Body IntegrationThe brain and body communicate through different channels when a part of you is crossed over the center of your body. As you go through the steps, cross and uncross a hand or foot over the midline of your body when you gaze at each Circle. Use a soft focus and breathe patiently. This will help you integrate your thinking more fully so that you can be more creative. Let any negative self-talk go by breathing through it.

Feel free to move at anytime in any way to help you embody your experience!


Okay, so let’s begin to retrain your mind…

Step One: In your current situation, who or what is defining “perfection” for you?

Perhaps it’s the media or something you learned at home or in school.

Wherever it came from, does that definition create joy for you? Is it creating more balance or freedom?

So, what are you actually asking your mind to accomplish?

 

Step Two: How much of your energy have you been sending to this definition?

If it were a percentage, what might it be?

10%? 20%? 50% or more?

Would you like to send that energy to create more joy in this situation instead?

 

Step Three: Imagine you can retrain your mind to reorganize itself around “joy,” rather than “perfection”.

Place the word “Joy,” “Balance” or “Freedom” in the center, open space of the Circle and soften your gaze. Relax. While you’re doing this, the Circle may seem to rotate, spin or even change colors. If that happens – go with it. Release control of the experience and let your energy re-arrange itself. Your new goal may turn into images, experiences, colors, sounds or movements. Let it happen! You will know that the process is complete when the energy subsides.

You can get up and move around if you like. Take all the time that you need.

 

Step Four: Think about your situation again. What do you really want to accomplish?

 

Step Five: Take a moment and focus inwardly on what’s most important for you.

Chakra Healing - Third Eye Chakra

 

Step Six: Clear the energy in your Root Chakra so you can connect with the concept of your goal and bring it into physical manifestation.

Step Seven: How might you approach your situation differently now? What action can you take that will help you know you’re going for joy?

How is it different when you go for balance or freedom? What about sustainable prosperity?

 

Step Eight: Now that you’ve refocused your thoughts and energy on joy, take a break. Give your mind less to have to think about.

“I close the door on all that confusion. I give my mind a rest.”

Closure for Mind Body Healing

Congratulations! Going for joy rather than perfection is a central concept of the  Intuitive Learning Circles™ that will help you to live and prosper in the New Paradigm of co-operation and sustainable prosperity.

Thank you for playing Retrain Your Mind to Go for Joy. Now is a good time to go for a walk and relax!

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Rheanni Lightwater - Retraining the MindRheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in learning difficulties and mind body healing  using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Email your request to: soulresources@gmail.com or text her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday.


Disclaimer:
This Mind Exercise should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.