Staying Empowered Even When Things are Falling Apart

A Transformation Game To Help With Staying Empowered

Transformation Game - Staying EmpoweredDuring difficult times staying empowered is essential to long term success. Social paradigms and relationships from the past are in various stages of falling apart and it’s important that you don’t fall apart along with them. You can recenter yourself and refocus your energy by going through this I Ching Reading* and Transformation Game from Kuan Yin.
To help you better connect with her assistance, she uses the Intuitive Learning Circles ™ to communicate with you through meditation, affirmations and visualization. Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating Kuan Yins words. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek.

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For best results playing a Transformation Game, look at each Circle both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.



Welcome to the I Ching Reading and Transformation Game for The TOWER and Hexagram #23 – Deterioration

Transformation Game - Staying Empowered
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Staying Empowered

“If you’re experiencing a situation where there’s a great deal of societal discord, incompetence, arguments or break ups, power grabs or illness due to being in a toxic environment – the situation is definitely in the flow of the I Ching Hexagram #23 – DETERIORATION.

Be cautious in how you spend your energy and conservative about any investment of time or money. Reckless expenditures, whether they be financial, emotional or spiritual, are much more likely to result in loss at this time. 

The best thing to do when dealing with deteriorating situations is to step back and get perspective. Take care of yourself very sensibly and examine your reactions carefully. Be generous and kind to those you care about.

Meditate, gather yourself, remember that confusion is the ideal atmosphere for tricksters, abusers and despots. Remind yourself that all things must end. There will come a change for the better. 

If you deal with DETERIORATION with an attitude of revenge or resentment, you will deplete yourself by giving the situation more fuel, which is probably exactly the reaction your opponent wants. Your good intentions are better served by keeping yourself centered and grounded. 

Here is some help through a Transformation Game called Staying Empowered.”

Gently gaze at the Intuitive Learning Circles™ one at a time and consider the question or affirmation that goes with each Step. This self-care process helps you to become aware of what’s bothering you, so that you can make a different choice about how to use your energy more productively and in tune with your Inner Guidance.

 Step 1:

What is a situation around you now that is in the flow of DETERIORATION? Trust the message that comes through from your deepest, wisest guidance.

Step 2:

What truth are you having trouble communicating in this situation?

Step 3:

What is the feeling that tends to pull you into that situation?

Once you’ve identified what you’re feeling, take a moment and relax into it.

“I accept that this feeling is present and that eventually it will change. All things change eventually.”

The more you relax and accept, the faster and easier it will be for you to make corrections on the deeper levels you’re looking for.

Step 4:

Epigenetic Healing - Divine Nature ActivatedThe next few symbols are from Divine Nature Activated and will help you release negative conditioning and heal your DNA. The key is to relax as much as possible while looking at each symbol. It can help to imagine that an old, broken DNA strand is falling apart while a vibrant and cohesive DNA strand is relaxing, healing and filling up with light.

When using these symbols, it’s important to relax and breathe as you use each affirmation:

“I let go of seeing myself as weak or powerless. I reclaim and maintain my connection to the Divine.”


 “I let go of rigid ideas that have changed or proven to be false. I don’t have to be right.” 

“I now focus on a solution that is truthful and serves my highest good.”

“I let go of societal patterns of fear, violence and corruption. I hold the victory of love in mind.”

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“I see myself outside of the pattern of intolerance. I acknowledge and respect my fellow brothers and sisters.”

“I ask the Divine to lead me to common ground.”


Step 5:

Now that you’ve cleared that energy, ask your inner guidance:

“Are there any aspects of me that have become scattered or disempowered?”

If there are, call them back now.


Step 6:

It’s time to get more present and heart centered: 

“I am fully present inside my body.”

“The light in my heart center is strong and radiating out into the world.”

If you’re having trouble, it can help to take several deep breaths. Inhale on the count of 4. Exhale on the count of six. Open and close your fingers. If you are feeling a strong emotion come up, go back to Step #4 and repeat the process of relaxing and dissipating the negative DNA patterns.


Step 7:

Now that you are fully present, ask your deepest wisest guidance:

“What is an action I can take that will help me with staying empowered?”

Take as much time as you need to reorganize your thoughts and energy around positive action.


 Step 8:

Staying empowered is much easier when you don’t let things stick to you. Consciously let go of any conflicts and peel off any sticky energy that comes from your deteriorating situation.

“This doesn’t belong to me. It’s theirs to deal with. I send it back.”

Step 9:

Dissolve destructive blueprints using these affirmations:

“I allow my mind to let go of any fears about the past or the future that I’m still holding onto. I see those patterns like dark clouds dissolving into a clear, blue sky.”

“I dissolve negative templates, attitudes and behaviors that cause me harm.”


Step 10. AurasThis is the final step to your game, but it’s very important!

You will want to keep your auras close to your body whenever you want to stay empowered. That’s because your auras provide protection. When they’re strong and focused, they can repel toxicity and keep your energy from mixing up with other people.

So, to finish this game, gaze softly at this Circle for as long as you need to repair and refocus them. Use this affirmation if you like:

“My auras are very strong and focused. I naturally keep them close to my body.”



Staying empowered is essential in times of DETERIORATION. Remember the transformation isn’t complete until you’ve taken the action you were guided to take in Step #7. If you like, you may go through this healing meditation again around other issues that are falling apart.  Be sure to rest though and take good care of yourself!

For More Help Navigating the Flow – Check Out Todays Intuitive Reading >



Rheanni Lightwater - Learning from Danger

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule.

This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment for any ailment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

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