Overcoming Indecision with Gentleness

Are You Having Difficulty Overcoming Indecision? Play a Transformation Game for Being Too Hard on Yourself ~

Kuan Yin's Transformation Games - Overcoming IndecisionKuan Yin has been helping us through these I Ching Readings to transition from the old economic paradigm based on greed and fear to a new paradigm of co-operation and sustainable prosperity. Her advice springs from the I Ching, an ancient book of divination that follows the flow of the cosmos. Because of that, her advice and instruction comes from a different perspective than ours.

To help you better connect with her assistance, she uses the Intuitive Learning Circles ™ to communicate with you through meditation, affirmations and visualization. If you have questions about the Circles, you can check out Exploring the Intuitive Learning Circles here >

Kuan Yin’s I Ching Readings and Transformation Games are meant to support your self-care and personal growth. Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating Kuan Yins words. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek.

Welcome to the I Ching Reading and Transformation Game for:

Hexagram #57 – Overcoming Indecision with PENETRATING INFLUENCE (The Gentle)

Overcoming Indecision with The Cosmic Tarot

“By attempting to penetrate all the myriad possibilities of the situation, you have dissipated the energy to influence. Great understanding means little without decisive action. Negativity can no longer be prevented.” ~ The I Ching Workbook, R.L. Wing

This particular line in the I Ching text for Hexagram #57 PENETRATING INFLUENCE serves as a warning to those who would like to avoid falling further into the collective chaos and confusion by overcoming indecision in their personal lives. This idea can be compared to the modern meme, ‘making no decision is still a decision.’

Transformation Game: Overcoming Indecision through Gentleness and Patience

Start with this Circle that helps you check into decisions that are currently affecting your health, wealth and general wellbeing. See if you have one or more decisions that need to be made in order to keep you safe and on track with your goals. Gaze softly at the Circle and ask yourself:

“Is there a decision on my horizon that needs to be made?”

Relax your shoulders. Take a few breaths and see if you can identify it. There may be more than one. Start with the one that comes to mind first.

Your answer might come in the form of words, like ‘yes’, ‘no’ or ‘maybe’. Or you could get a vague sense of something, a flash or a feeling in your gut. You might even see the whole scenario in your mind, complete with a cast of characters and scenery. Whatever comes, be patient and trust it. After all, there’s a reason why you haven’t made this decision! Decide to be gentle with yourself. 

Mind Body Integration

Mind Body IntegrationIf you’re having difficulty, look at the symbol both crossed over the midline of your body and uncrossed to help you access the information more completely.


Gently bring your Crown Chakra into the formula. When this energy center at the top of your head is open and balanced, you can more easily tap into information and inspiration from your Higher Self. Relax and let the energy get connected and balanced.


Turn your attention to this Circle and imagine that all the have to’s, supposed to’s and musts are gently melting away. Notice how you can let the lines move around and go wavey while you relax some more.

“I decide to be gentle with myself. I melt away the harsh thoughts, judgements and pressures. I let my body relax.”


“I release any fears of punishment, loss or retribution. I am okay. All is well.”

Old Soul

Continue relaxing while this Circle gets you in touch with your inner resources.

“I trust my intuition. I am open and receptive to my better instincts.”  

This may take a few minutes before the blockage clears. Decide to have patience for yourself. When you can be patient with yourself, it’s easier to be patient with others.

“In this case, I patiently put together the pieces. I know what to do.”

Congratulations! You have just become aware of a decision that needs to be made. Now you have more resources to help you sort it out and navigate the details. This would be a good time to take a break and do something completely different!

If you’d like, there are a couple other steps you could take that would gently help you in overcoming indecision. 

Use this Soul Contract Circle to help you identify and release conditioning from your early childhood or upbringing that encourages you to be hard on yourself. Simply gaze softly at the Circle while you use the affirmations. It can be helpful to imagine the agreements being pulled from the ground as you go through this process.

“I uproot any agreements to be harsh, or put pressure on myself.”

“I unearth patterns of behavior that prevent me from taking good care of myself.”

Clear your inner garden of any noxious weeds that are interfering with your ability to take positive, proactive action on your behalf. By doing so, you free up a lot of energy and effort that’s fighting with the way things used to be or the way others want them to be.

Being loyal to yourself is always a good basis for decision making. Use this Circle to help you imprint these positive affirmation about yourself:

“I am true to myself. I am ___________.”

“I make choices that are productive and that keep me on a positive path.”

“I let go of _________. I prepare for __________. I take care of __________.”


“I make a choice to focus my energy on people, activities and _________ that are genuinely beneficial.”


Now it’s time to dissolve mental and emotional patterns that pull you off track. Use this symbol for dissolving destructive blueprints to identify and let go of  any societal or familial patterns that are still affecting you in a negative way. See them disappear as you send them to the Sun:

“I dissolve the destructive energies of distraction, avoidance and confusion.

I send any harmful interference to the Sun to be transformed.


Find your good karma and send positive energy to those seeds so that your decisions genuinely benefit you.

Plant new seeds if you like!

Closure for Mind Body HealingOnce the patterns are cleared and your beneficial seeds of karma are nourished properly, give your mind some relief through closure.

Whenever an important decision is being made, take several moments to close the energy leaks or pathways of suffering between you and everyone involved with your decision. 

Otherwise, a channel remains open, allowing all kinds of confusion and opportunities for manipulation to pass back and forth between the participants. This can manifest in overwhelming states of mental confusion, issues with prosperity or abuse of power. This final step is especially important for highly sensitive people.

By closing the door to pathways that lead you back to chaos, confusion and negativity, you make a fresh start.

“All pathways of suffering and confusion are sealed and healed.

I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

Congratulations! Once you begin to take responsibility for overcoming indecision, you are on the path to creating your Soul’s destiny!”

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Rheanni Lightwater - Finding Moderation in the New Paradigm

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule or Email: soulresources@gmail.com


This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

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