Learning resiliency is another way to say “I want to know how to be stronger and in charge of myself.”
One of the biggest challenges in learning resiliency is dealing with energy drains.
It’s so easy to get sucked into negative, disaster thinking. All you have to do is turn on any form of media and within minutes you’re hit with intense waves of anger, fear, even paranoia. Before you know it, you can hear that loud, sucking sound of your energy being drained right out of you!
Of course there are plenty of disastrous events that are actually happening. It doesn’t pay to isolate, live in denial or surround yourself with ‘nothing to see here’ apathy. However, paying too much attention to problems is like feeding them and making them worse with your own thinking. A positive balance can be struck by consciously pulling your attention and energy away from the problem and redirecting them to genuinely helpful solutions.
It may sound hard to do, but learning resiliency through this short Mind Exercises is a simple 4 Step process.
With the Intuitive Learning Circle™ method, you can easily use the Circles below as refocusing tools. All you have to do is be open and follow the simple directions. Each Circle helps gather unconscious information, organize awareness and illuminate solutions that come directly from your Soul. You are in charge!
Start out by taking a moment to consider the kinds of situations that really suck you in. Your energy drain could be anything – work, family, politics, technology, social media or even a personal relationship.
What energy drain comes to mind first?
Next, scroll down and gaze softly at the short sequence of Intuitive Learning Circles™ below. Let each Circle help you access intuitive answers to the questions that go along with them.
Take a moment to relax and take a few deep breaths. Let your shoulders drop and gently look at the Circle in whatever way that appeals to you. Once you feel pretty relaxed. Ask yourself this question:
What am I paying too much attention to that isn’t in my best interests?
It’s important that you take whatever answer comes to you because that answer is your Inner Guidance speaking to you.
Gaze softly at this next Circle that helps you access your unconscious decisions:
“What decisions am I making about this situation? What have I decided about myself? Are those productive thoughts?”
If so, great! Make them even stronger.
If not, what kind of thoughts and decisions would be better for you to make? Don’t judge, just keep a mental note. Disaster thinking never did make sense. Oftentimes when we change our decisions, our thoughts change too.
As you gaze at this Circle, ask yourself:
“Am I willing to close the pathways in my consciousness that lead to disaster thinking and energy drains?”
If the answer is yes, use your imagination with this Circle to see the pathways close, as if they were never there.
Am I heading in the direction that is genuinely helpful to me?”
If the answer you get is no, imagine that your spirit is gently turning you in the direction that would be most helpful to you.
Once you’re clear that you’re heading in the right direction, you have successfully pulled yourself out of disaster thinking.
Now that you know how to use the Circles and what they can do, you might want to experiment some more. There’s a list of possibilities in the next section.
How Can You Choose a Mind Exercise or Self-care Formula That Will Further Help Your Personal Growth in Learning Resiliency?
There are a total of 3 processes that I recommend in this situation:
- Strengthen your personal energy by standing strong and Grounding in the Truth.
- Clear inappropriate interference and attachments with Develop Healthy Boundaries.
- Make sure your environment is supporting your highest good with Setting Up a Safe Space.
Take a look at the red symbol below and ask your heart:
“Which strengthening exercise would help me, right now? Process #1.. 2.. or 3?”
Remember to take the very first answer that comes to you, because that’s your intuition (Inner Wisdom) speaking. If more than one process comes up, make a mental note of the order they came to you. Start with the one that came first, then see if you need more help.
Once you have your process number, go ahead and click on the link to that number and follow the directions.
This is the intuitive way to decide which process would help you with learning resiliency right now!
Of course, if you want, you can always call (505) 271-4612 or email us at email@example.com if you want more advice.
Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in learning difficulties and mind body healing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.
Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Email your request to: firstname.lastname@example.org or text her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday.